Part 2 - Traditional Wedding Procedure in Saudi Arabia

Have a Happy Friday! The 2nd wave/ events of the wedding was done. It was the signing of contract with the male nearest relatives of both party, the groom and the bride. For the 2nd events, it divided into two party, yesterday it was with the male visitors and at night the family of the groom came and brought all their gold gifts for the bride. Later at night, all female friends and relatives will come at night until morning to congratulate the bride a d family after the signing of marriages contract. The daughter of my boss was officially married but they are not yet allow to stay together. The groom could visit the bride until the big day called Sahara. The signing of contract is called Melka.

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The Mansion was lighted in and out. It looked like a ship in the ocean with the reflection in the rain water on the street.

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Highlighted the new theme of the rooms and arrangement.

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The outside view when the strong wind storm us not with sand but a rain water. The first rain of the season and hopefully, it's a good sign for their culture and tradition.

At night the groom family that they were going to send and give the stuff for the bridges gift. Aside from money, they were sending a 2 cars full of stuff and the golds.

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11:30pm, the grooms family and friends arrived. I watched them in the cctv monitor. They had lighted fireworks but I didn't catch the moment, I was busy.

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Different kinds of stuffs, fruits, drinks, sweets and golds.

The melka had done but they will not be together until next month. There will be three remaining procedure to complete the marriages life of the daughter of my employer before they finally declare as husband and wife.

A lot of money spend for a marriage life here. It caused some individuals remain single both men and women. Or else some of the citizens find lovers or wife abroad to escape the reality of over spending during a wedding or finding a wife. This is my observations as I am staying here 27 years. I noticed the reality, traditions and cultures.

This is just a part of the story and thank you for your support #Wednesdaywalk by @tattoodjay, #hiveph, @asean.hive admn and community members. I would like to mention @justinparke. I know that you love to hear something new about my life in the Middle East of the world.



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I can imagine the only way to find love and not be robbed is to go abroad. We've had that tradition as well but it died. It's a good thing, It's already hard enough to find true love.

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True love is hard to find this time. If I love again, I want only me loving him hahaha but its just fantasy to make you smile and I smile too🙂

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True love indeed is hard to find. Perhaps people are no longer willing or able to sacrifice themselves and do everything for someone.
If it comes to sacrificing... If you easily give, and make acrifices, people mainly will fight for you if they have the feeling they can't get you.

Let's go for a soulmate someone who makes you feel good and you feel a connection with. Such persons must exist.

It's good to let them show they appreciate you, being manipulated in the name of love blah blah is wrong. Keep your wallet close dear friend, you worked for many years to make many others rich. Stop with it.

Everyone around you is an adult and they should take care of themselves and at the first place of you!

If you have saved enough let's buy a guy to work for us and keep us company if we feel to it.

Make yourself happy dear, and start pampering yourself!

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So so so beautiful words I ever heard. You are one of my angel. Salute you my dear.

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Just looking at the place, it already gave me the impression that it's really an expensive wedding. It must have been overwhelming to see such an event done by a different culture.

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Thank you for dropping by my friend

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You have been living in Saudi Arabia for 27 years? Wow! I lived there for two years and yes their marriage ceremony is very expensive, but very colourful.

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Yes, the 5 out 7 children of my boss now married with 8 grandchildren, while they were a child when I came here

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