Negativity of the New Age

The Era of change is actually constant if you take out time to verify some of the things happening currently round the world.

The activities of change effects every human life,even natures own natural gifts too.
There was a time when people see the need to be better ,do better or act better and try every possible best to shame ill acts and even frown at it's self compromise, when doing things that are not acceptable in the society at large .

In today's world people hardly care anymore and it feels like theres no hope for a better or good people to last more centuries on this planet sometimes.

Here i want to talk about a story about a 22year old young lady, she started dating her Man when she was 17 and this very Man was 45 then ,he shower's her with lot's of gifts and attention even while she was in the university back then ,just as they say "age is just a number ; so the girl was happy with dating and loving this very man despite the age difference,
She never bothered to ask if he was married,
Never bothered to ask even if he was ,why chose to date a girl like her,

2years later she found out he was married ,
She was checking through is profile on facebook and she went down to view his old pictures ,"even though he stopped posting his family on fb he still wishes them happy birthday but she never knew they were his kids before".
So she checked and found out that he has been married for 14 years because he recently wished the first girl happy 16th birthday and it seems his wife got pregnant and gave birth 2years before they got married ,
Then she checked all the pictures and profiles of the kids he have been wishing happy birthday all this while and discovered the first daughter is 16yr old and other 2guys were 13 and 12.
So when she found out ,she confronted him and he admitted ,sayin she never asked before,
At first she was angry but then he was begging and explaining to her that the wife have never had any issues with him dating her..
Well they settled and 6months later he proposed, she wanted to reject like" why will young lady like her settle for 2nd wife?.
These were just questions in her head, but then she was already inlove with this man because he was always around most times buying her things and taking good care of her too ,
Though her parents are rich and they give her everything she needs but she just feel the man is the only guy trying everything he can to make her happy and give her enough attention..
Well to cut the story short the girl accepted to marry him and she was 20then in her final year ,
When she graduated,the marriage was fixed and all..
They later got married at last.
She got a job and was working ,then moved in to stay with the man ..
But all hell was let loosed when she finally entered the house because on the contrary, instead of the first to be loving like the husby claimed, the wife promised to make her life a living hell for making her husband neglect her all this years and still have the nerve to agree to marry him..
Her mum even warned her about stayin away from the married man that the wife will never accept her but she refused..
She wanted to see the wife as a big sister and the kids as her own sibling ,but it wasnt going the way she had imagined it..
Well'.
Its been 2years and the husband seems not to care for her like before because he hardly talk back at his first wife even if shes the one causing all the fights and troubles..
The only thing she uses in the house was her room and toilet,she wasn't allowed to cook or do anything..
Though the first wife takes care of other things but she forbids her from touching any of the husbands property
The husby never said anything because the first wife will rain hell ..
And then she realised that she really have been selfish all this years ,
He gave her all the attention he needed to give the wife all this years and now he cant really keep up with it ..
So she was planning on moving out of the house and let the wife be , because she doesnt ask of anything from the husband aside from attention and she can take good care of her self and her 1yr old baby .

Well truth is ,...
this girl might not know she actually caused pain to that family all these while the husband was being all attentive to her , and the husband being selfish didn't bother to know his wife was not happy too ..
At the end she still need to leave if she wants peace..
And sincerely this are some of the morale decadence that have eaten up the society were people feel proud and happy of going out or dating other peoples husbands..
Its now a norm we all need to avoid at all cost if we want to get peace as ladies too .