Choices

Feeling lazy picking up schedules have always been one of the easiest thing anyone can ever get excuses for..
Like you can have pile list of what you want and still not feel need to do any of them just because you keep procrastinating and ignoring them due to laziness.

Sometimes it might be stress
Sometimes it might be tiredness

Sometimes it might just because you feel you have other options of getting things done ,

But at the end it still turns out to be laziness too or mayb just some sort of ignorance and maybe being too comfortable in a particular situation that you just ignore to make extra effort in doing the necessary things needed to be done .

Here is a guy in his 30's that still lives with his elder bro and the wife ,
This guy always have excuses for everything..
The dude has a gf that he's dating , and this girl was actually seing herself through school,
Paying rent,
Shes still running her little buisness at her own expenses to .
It happened that this 30 yr old guy have been dating her for 3years now,when they first started he was actually having big ideas and things he wanted to run and how he will go about it .
He had an opportunity and was granted a loan of about 6million to run his buisness ,

What he wanted to do would cost him about 3million so he can use the other 3million to settle him self ,get a house..
all that was 3years ago .

It turns out that he told his elder bro who was married then about the money and they all agreed to invest it and pay back the loan together in 5years ,
He then gave the brother 1million from the money,
Back then his present girlfriend was still struggling with her school and buisness because her parents were dead and she was the one taking care of her bills and expenses,
He decided to assist her and told her about the loan ,
So she agreed to pay back her own share too and he gave her 1million from the money,
Then he kept one million for himself after starting up his own buisness,
All of a sudden he started seing cool cash less than 6months he bought a car , but refused to live his brothers house, claiming he wants to build his house before moving out because his bro had just 2kids and he wasnt having issues with them since he works too ..
But after one year the bro payed him back the 1 million ,
The girlfriend payed him 500 thousand from her own part ,and everything was going fine till he started hanging out with some big guys in town that keeps spending money recklessly in clubs and all,
The girlfriend begged him to atleast get a land or something but he refused ,she even reported him to the elder bro who actually told him to try invest in other things but he just refused ,saying money will always come and there's time for every thing too..
In 6months this guy was busy buyin champagne of 500 to 700k in clubs and was living in different hotels too .
A year and 7months he has spent all the money including the 1million the brother gave him and his girlfriend's 500k.
He suddenly got a reckless spending habit and refused to invest on any other buisness and it was just one buiness he was relying on ,he had opportunity to invest in good real estate project and so many opportunities he could do with the cash,
The loan giving to him was a 5year payment loan and the only family land given to him was the collateral for that loan,
2years later the guy was back to zero , he wasted buisness money on the party life he chose to live and was hoping to get more loans from places he applied for ,along the line he lost his mum.
She was buried 3months later ,he sold his car too and later on he left his brothers house to go lodge at some hotels with his friends to,
Non of the big guys were able to assist him even after all the money he keeps wasting but he still chose to roll with them because they spend huge on expensive things.
He later came back to take loan from his girlfriend and she gave him 700k from her buisness money ,
But still he used the money to just flaunt and follow those big guys ,at first the girlfriend was going to those places with him but she stopped because she felt he was spending way too much and she had to stop going but he refused to stop either..
Its been 3years already and the guy have refused to work after loosing everything,
He keeps borrowing small cash from her after the elder bro stopped giving him loans because he still spends them recklessly,
She got angry one day and scolded him to leave her house since he refused to change ,but he was begging and sayin he's still feeling sad because of the death of his mum.

Well..
According to the girlfriend she wants to break up with him till he's ready to change ,and he's draining her financially too ,she knew he helped her when she needed help but he's still in debt of 7million with just 2yrs to pay back but still he's hope is to borrow to pay back when the 5yrs reach..
She and the elder bro both gave him their own 1million but he spent it all and was giving excuses ,
Now she doesn't want to make him feel bad because he said he wants to come live with her and move out of the brothers house ,
And she asked if he could join her in her own buisness but he said God forbid..
Like the dude has refused to see reasons with anyone only thing on his mind is that he wants to either party or travel, or collect some big loans so he can keep going out with those friends that keeps spending huge cash.
They have never even for once try to help him.
She now keeps wondering if
Its laziness,
Ignorance,
Procrastination,
Or he just got a poor sense of reasoning.