Being appreciative

Today is another day for a new feeling to be excited ..
Currently people just dont know the values of some of the things they have until they loose it.

Sometimes it is very necessary to know how to appreciate little things especially when you feel it is not worth it. but here i just want to share a story about a lady who was just naive despite seeking for advice from people and still ended up doing a major mistake too.

It turns out that the lady got pregnant last year and she give birth February this year. The guy that got her pregnant have been taking care of her for a very long time,he opened a business for her ,
Also get to carter for almost all her needs even to the extent of sending her to school and payin for her tuitions.

After her child birth the guy had to go see her parents and he did both introduction on that day.

After the ceremony,they both went back and she started living with him and he took full responsibility of taking care of both her and the baby,4 months later the guy's dad died and burial was fixed.
Just 2months before the burial the girl started having issues with the guy because she wanted him to fix date for their white wedding after the dads burial but he wasn't taking it seriously so she wasnt happy about it,
Well the whole case got worst when she asked for flight ticket and he said he doesnt have money for such expense, and that she should use a bus to come for it ,

This made her to refuse going with him even when it was a month to the burial, and he was not really happy about it.

So she asked most of her friends for advice since she was feeling like the guy wasn't caring about her as much as he did care for his family because he actually paid flight ticket for both his mum and sister,

Most of the friends told her not to make issues about it while some few ones said she should not go for the burial since he have not really done the main wedding yet and be acting like a wife, then she chose not to go until he gets to send her the flight money ,but the only thing she said annoyed her was when he told her that if he doesnt get to see her a night before the burial she should better forget anything about the wedding or go back to her parents,

She was soo angry and bitter about his statement and decided not to go for the burial, so after all the advices she got from friends online she decided not to go because some friends told her he won't respect her if he can threaten her like that and she decides to go because of fear, but one of her friends even offered to send her 20,000 just for her to meet up , but at the end she told her husband that if he refuse to send the flight money she will never attend the burial,

she switched off her phone and 3days after the burial , she switched the phone back On,and her mum called her and threatened to disown her for the shame and disgrace she made them go through,
She never knew her parents and family were around for that burial ,and her Dad sent her a text saying "since you decided to spoil your marriage with your hands never you near my home"..

Here and then she knew there was problem and she started calling the guy but he refused to pick her calls ,.
All she did was to arrange her things and head back to the guy's villa and its 1week already but no one is giving her listening ears and not even the guy or her family.

This goes to show you how we need to be careful about certain decisions we chose to make.