Anger Can Never Be A Good Tool For Change.
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Welcome to my blog and another wonderful edition of the hive learners' featured post. We all have cases where anger came through for us, and cases where anger made issues worse. No matter how many times it comes through for us, that does not make it a good tool for bringing change.
Most of the time, when we are angry, we do and say things we tend to regret when we calm down. Like my dad always tells me, you cannot use fire to fight fire. For peace to reign, we don't need anger to resolve issues. Most of the time, humans feel anger is the best approach to a problem, but the end result when we approach a problem with anger is always disastrous.
An angry approach to a problem won't bring a solution to the problem, because your mind is not focused and an unfocused mind cannot yield a good result. Everything we approach angrily ends up being unfruitful. In the long run, we regret approaching this issue the way we did.
Anger can help bring change, but in most cases, all it brings is a negative change. It is not a good tool for change. We should try to approach problems calmly and resolve our differences amicably.
Regretful Actions: When we are angry, it's as if we lost consciousness and we tend to do those things we vowed never to do, but because we are angry and not our usual self, we do them. After we calm down, we start to regret taking such an action.
Wrong Use Of Words: We cannot use words wrongly and expect a positive result. When we are angry, we tend to say whatever comes to our head without thinking about the other person's feelings. This is why we were advised to take words said out of annoyance and anger very seriously, because that is when the truth comes out. When we are angry, we say things without thinking or tasting our words.
Loss Of Life And Properties: Approaching a problem with anger can result in the loss of life and even property. I witnessed a fight between two traders. They had to fight because one of them approached a minor issue angrily by slapping the other. In the process of fighting, they pushed their goods off the table, and the goods were perishable. They regretted their approach to the issue because they had to bear the losses.
Loosing Bond: For every issue we approach angrily, we lose bond with the other person. You cannot speak to me angrily and you expect me to act like it's nothing. My attitude towards you will change. Many lost good friends because they approached the issue angrily. In order not to lose bonds with people, we should try to approach issues calmly, no violence needed.
Well from your outline of the product of anger it is not good at all especially when it leads to death as life cannot be regained once it is lost.
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Anger for sure is not good.
Thanks for reading.
I agree to you, that's why "Think first then speak". So that people's hearts don't hurt because of us. And it is very important how we control ourselves in anger.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful piece. 💕
It's quite difficult for people to control themselves once angry.
Thanks for reading.
Anger has done more harm than good, and I do agree that they are instances where anger can be a good tool like when you're being intimidated by someone, but that can only be good if you can control your anger without letting it grow into something that will cause harm or possibly the death of another person
When you are being intimidated, it can help out things in place and at same time can cause chaos.
Anger has done more harm than good and has been a curse for so many deaths in our society.
Thanks for reading.
Anger is an emotion as wild as a wounded animal. When the flames are lit, it takes a controlled mind and/or the grace of God to quench that fire. There is a lot to be said about the harms anger causes, but as always, we can not always have what we want.
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Anger can be really disastrous if we are not careful, because keeping it in check can be a tough thing to do. We have to he careful.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
To Control oneself once anger is another level of self control.
Thanks for reading boss.
Sometimes our anger can be a good thing if we have to lead someone but if we are angry to scare someone or to take revenge from someone then it will work as Acid.
Thanks for sharing with all of us😊.
Anger has both positive and negative sides.
I am also agree with you 👍
Anger Can Never Be A Good Tool For Change....
Thanks for reading sir.
This wrong use of words had led lots of people to prison because they can't control their alteration when they are angry. It's good to think first then speak, nice write up!
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