Financially and Emotionally Drained Due to Unexpected Expenses

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How do you cope with unexpected expenses? I guess this is not always a sweet experience for anyone but the truth is that it happens to many people at one point in our lives. These few days, I have been away from hive because of the issues I had with my mobile phone. It took me unaware, I never saw it coming. The irony of the whole thing is that my last blog in the morning before I lost my phone was about how my mobile phone has been a source of financial relief to me and my family, how I have been utilizing my phone judiciously, making money with it instead spending much time via other social media apps without earning. It was as if my village people read that blog and decided to punish me in the evening of that same day but it was fine,lol. From my experience within these few days, I will boldly say that the importance of savings/emergency funds can never be overemphasized.

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It was on a Saturday morning, I was doing laundry 🧺 in my home. After a while, I decided to spread some washed clothes and before I returned, my son already took my phone and wrapped it with unwashed clothes, unknowingly to me, I packed the clothes in soapy water and soaked it very well without knowing that I was soaking my phone as well. To make matters worst, I left the soaked cloth to attend to my last baby, then I remembered an important call to make, and that was when I started looking for my phone. Hmmm, I asked everyone at home (because I have a particular place I normally keep my phone if not in use) and my son boldly told me that he warrapped my phone under unwashed clothes....wooottt!!! Unwashed Clothes I already soaked for a while? I rushed and picked up my phone in the soapy water...I felt so sad, confused, and depressed. I quickly dressed and took it to the phone repairer where they loosened the phone and dried it with some kind of light. To cut the story short, all their efforts since Saturday to date to revive my phone proved abortive.

According to the engineer, it could be because the phone fell inside soapy water which is not healthy for it and secondly, it overstayed inside the water and all the parts of the phone got soaked so much. I don't know how best to explain how I felt...it was so bad. Life without a phone, internet, losing money each day. and other limitations. I couldn't bear the whole drama, I didn't have savings for such expenses, and I already have bills in the queue but this happened; Unexpected Expenses.

I once blogged on the topic titled: "what did I do to deserve this kind of love". Well, due to a lack of savings and emergency funds, I was planning on how to rescue the situation when a kind soul who heard what happened to me gifted me another new device today!

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The new phone

Making this blog with the new phone and I can't contain my joy honestly, I feel loved and I am grateful. I was Emotionally Drained but not anymore, I am back to life..lol. This experience also thought me a life lesson which is to always save no matter how the bills keep piling In case of an important matter like this. Emergency funds indeed could be a lifesaver!

THANKS FOR READING!!!



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Bang, I did it again... I just rehived your post!
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Reading this reminds me of the time I bought my first phone by my own money, the joy is different especially that it can very helpful in writing our daily blogs. ❤️

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Yea, it's a very helpful tool for bloogers here

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So happy you ara back. Thank God for the help you got

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May God bless that good friend who gifted you a new phone. I still remember reading and commenting on that your blog where you talked about how helpful our phones can be to us financially.

I can't just imagine losing my phone for now because if it happens I don't have any emergency funds anywhere to get a new one. Besides good phones are just super expensive now.

Glad to have you back sweet mummy❤🤗🥰.
And please keep an eye on this one, kids can be very mischievous with phones.

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My dear...it wasn't in the plan to buy phone oo 😂😂
I feel like I am still dreaming
Someone should just wake me up
Lol...but it's well
We have to move on
Thanks for your nice words, I will keep an eye cos I no fit shout again

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It's really so sad when unexpected expenses sets in but then I think most times it's always for the better and I think yours was for the better.

The only fear I have of loosing my phone is the fact that I don't want to lose my hive keys but I have already kept it well 😌. But the main fear is that unexpected expenses and in your case, you got someone that came to your rescue and I pray God bless the person.

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Atimes unexpected expenses are inevitable. If we have plenty money, we will not be bothered. I am happy that my hive keys are safe somewhere just that the days without my phone wasn't funny.
God bless the person indeed
How are you doing my dear 🥰💕
How is school so far

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Yeah, we thank God for everything, he has been really good to us. School is going well, I finished my first semester exam last week, so I'm on break now

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Wowww
Good to hear that

Hope to see more of you here within this break period

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Yeah, I look forward to being here more too 😊

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I'm glad you are able to come back online because someone like me miss you alot .. don't worry darling you will get the money back

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Hahaha 😂
Why did you miss me this much

Just two days
Tiny two days 😂😂

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Life challenges don't often send us a mail before they visit, Often they come unexpectedly. Accidents like that are bound to happen whether we like them or not but I trust God when he said, he would grant us grace to overcome them.

I am just so happy that you understood this mystery very and didn't beat the hell out of your baby out of anger. When one door closes another opens, in your case see how God did, like a miracle. God bless that soul that bought a new phone for you. May his account never run dry.

I really cant imagine how life without phone would be like for someone like me. Well, Thank God for providing another one. It nice to have you back mom🥰💚

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Hmmmmm
I nearly wounded that boy oo 😂😂
But he was lucky that I calmed down

Unexpected Expenses always happens at the wrong time but we will survive
I am equally happy to the giver
Many thanks for your time and ur amazing comments

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Thank God it was almost, beating him won't solve the problem. It has happened already 🥰

Seriously, that is why it is good to aways have savings. But with the way our world is full of challenges now, to save is not easy o.

You are always welcome mom🥰🥰🥰 I suppose get one coke for that new phone na😅😁

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Yes...to save is not easy because of bills but it's necessary if we can

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True, it is.. happy Sunday mom❤️

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