Never give up on yourself

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Hello my fellow Hive!!! The story I'll like to share to us this moment is a true life story that happened in my family which I belief it can change many people's life and mentally if you can follow these post till the end.

This story has to do with you not giving up on yourself no matter the circumstances you meet yourself because in life sometimes we plan life straight and life itself will make things zig zag for us. So when you find yourself in these kind of situations you just have to keep going and keep believing that things will be fine no matter what

This is a story of my blood sister who is unlucky on her early stage of her life, she got pregnant when she was 17 years old, then she just finished her secondary school certificate examination. The pregnancy was a mistake and fortunately the pregnancy turn to twins when she gave birth. She was happy having the babies and everyone was happy too, but my parents didn't support my sister in getting married to the man of the babies because of tripe and language. It was so unfortunate for my sister and she wasn't happy about it.

My sister accepted her faith and move on with her life being a single mother. Life wasn't easy for my sister with the children but she never give up on herself. 6years after, my sister met another man who truly show her love, care and everything, immediately they started dating, God answered my sister prayer with her boyfriend and both of them got a visa and traveled out to UAE(United Arab Emirate) to start a new life there. After 2 years of them being together, my sister got pregnant for him, the man was excited about it and they both started keeping and taking care of the pregnant

They were together at UAE till the pregnant reach 8months, after 8 months, they both see that she will soon deliver the baby, my sister husband to be, told my sister to start coming back to Nigeria so that she will come and deliver the baby in Nigeria, he proceed my sis ticket and my sister left with the hope that she's coming to Nigeria to deliver baby and also meet her husband family. But something unbelievable happened when my sis got to Nigeria wanting to meet her husband family. When she got to her husband family, she started introducing her self as wife to their son, but to my surprise my sis husband family said their son did not tell them anything concerning it and as a matter of fact their son has already did introduction with a another lady before he traveled out and to my biggest surprise the mother called my sister husband to be on call and put on loud speaker and started asking her son questions about it and the son couldn't denied this, he accepted that he has did introduction with another lady before he traveled out and he was even saying that he is not sure if he is the one that owns the pregnancy of 8months that is inside my sister

When my sis heared this, she almost collapsed because she wasn't expecting this, on a nutshell, this my sis husband told his parents not to allow my sister to stay with them saying that he is not the one responsible for 8months pregnancy, it was as if have never heard that before in my life. This is how my sister turn to fool and didn't even know what to do again, she pleaded with him and his family but they refused to listen to her, here is my sister in another broken relationship with another man with 8 months pregnant. It wasn't easy for her and it was a very tough one for her till the time she gave birth to the baby

After she gave birth, she vowl that she will never get marry and she doesn't even belief she will be able to get marry with 3 children with different father that she's having. So she crossed her heart totally that she will never be in love again. It took her a very long time before she can recover from this. After 2years of not having any man in her life, she come across another man, at first she wasn't giving this man a single attention due to what happened to her in the past but she do tell me about the man that the man do disturb her alot, so I told her to give the man a trial after he keeping disturbing her for 7months, my sister accepted this man but was very scared and not committed to the relationship to the extend that she was making it obvious to the man, when I saw this, I have to call my sister and advise her not to let her past ruin her present, that she should let go of the past and moving with her life the way it was then, my sister adjusted and she started doing as she used to be, to my surprise, this man proposed to my sister and before he proposed he voul that he would take care of my sister children as his own children and love them the way he love my sister and that's how he married my sister. Today they are living as a happy family and my sister has gave birth to two children for her new husband

The moral of this stories is to tell us that no matter what happen to us in life either good or bad we should not give up on ourselves, always remember that life is a lesson, the more we leave the more we learn, also always remember that no condition is permanent, things might not go well for you today doesn't mean that it will continue like that forever

Note this: If you can control your thought, and you act, walk, talk the way you will like to be, you will eventually become it