Let's not label others, this is annoying.

Even in these modern times there are labels in the human being, we easily dare to define others, to describe how they are and how they think, but usually they have not been asked or listened to, in fact we do not even know that person.

We label the person by how they usually dress, by being a member of a club, by their affinity to a political party, by their profession, by their education, by the place where they work, by their friends, by the area where they live, by the way they comb their hair, and in many, many other ways. Lazy, lazy, fat, skinny, weak, ugly are labels that not only limit people, but often make them feel bad.

These are frivolous actions and it is a judgment towards others, being something relevant both for the person who does it and for the person to whom it is addressed, since usually the label is accompanied by an attitude that indicates indifference and contempt.

Generally, we are labeled in our immediate environment, forming something like a social curriculum. These social labels influence our way of being and acting. Although labels are positive, they can be counterproductive because a label is always limiting; we give them credibility and act accordingly.

Labeling people can cause great stress, because we think that they cannot change. If a person treats us badly, we infer that they are a bad person, instead of thinking that they may be having a bad day or need help. One fact does not define a person, and all people can and have the right to change.

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We need to ask ourselves what others really think or are like before we put a label on them. We are judging in advance whether a person is good or bad, just because we don't know them or simply because they don't think like us.

Labeling others is disrespectful to people. Before judging, you have to understand the reasons of others, listen and talk. This is the only way to discover the thinking of others, and if they have other points of view different from ours, to debate, since we can all agree or disagree in our way of thinking. It may be that after talking we discover that this person has much more in common with us than we initially thought.

People are not who they are because of the way they act, in fact, surely someone has many reasons for doing what they do, do not judge at first sight. You have to spend some time with people to eliminate prejudices and see the reality of how everything is.

We should not pay attention to gossip, since we get the image of someone based on what others have told us about them. No matter how much we trust the source of the gossip, sometimes our perceptions are different. Gossip will lead you to miss out on the opportunity to get to know someone who could bring a lot to you and who may actually be worth your time.

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Labeling a person without knowing them is not a good practice, and unfortunately in modern society we tend to do it. To avoid labeling another person, we must strive to know and accept the other with their weaknesses and strengths.

It is important to review individual and family beliefs, which we use daily to perceive the behavior of others, being very important to recognize the power of words, which we use daily with others.

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The annoyances.

What annoys you about modern society? Explain it in a post of at least 300 words including possible methods of rectifying the situation. Use images you have taken yourself if possible.

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