Be a little carefree in life
Between me and my sister, she is the serious one and it's been like that since childhood. When we were kids, and all of us cousins and me and my sister we would all come together at our granny's place during vacations. Those are fun times because we all cousins would meet and as children all we could think was playing and having fun time.
We all would play together and my sister would be sitting with the elderly lot. I She would not want to join us for play. In front of her we would not dare to do anything that we would not want our elders to know.
This was childhood and so many years have gone by and she is still the same, the stiff person. Now that we are all grown-ups I do make fun of her and tell her that she has missed enjoying her life being so serious all the time. She has improved a little but yet she is the same old person with who one cannot have fun very easily. All my life I have not remembered any moments of fun with her, we have had family gatherings where little bit she lets herself go lose else I see she is always very tightly placed in her own cocoon. I tell her also, does she not feel suffocated with that, and she gives me a stern look.
In our growing up, we have both had a tough childhood and many childhood traumas stay with us, probably that's the reason why she is like this. And she is the elder one so probably things have registered more strongly in her memory then mine. Last week she had a high BP stroke and her eye capillaries burst due to high blood pressure and she has some other health issues as well. When she told me this, it really scared me a lot and my mind instantly went on to these thoughts, probably she has stored so much within her that now it's showing up on her health. I advised her that it's high time she let herself go loose and take life easy.
She does understand this now, but I am hoping that she can change herself, she can bring in more joy into her life and release the past.
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Yes, you are right @nainaztengra we have to take it easy on ourself, and do not stored so much thoughts on our mind, holding onto some words for long can hurt our health, especially, if those words we are keeping in our heart are not good memories, I like what you told her and to be frank, that's the cutest words, i wish her quick recovery and good times 🥰🙏
Thank you, Yes it is pointless to burden up yourself with the past
You are right, continue to have a good time 🥰🙏
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Some traumas hold a tight grip on us that they influence how we operate in life. Letting loose is probably the best way to reduce the intensity of the grip, it's much beneficial to be light-hearted and carefree :)
True, gone is gone nothing can be done about that, but focusing on future makes life more promising
Kuch baatein wakai kaafi gehrai tak dukh pahucha deti hain aur unhe chhodkar aage badhna mushkil jata hai par abhi recently hi maine Geeta mein padha tha exact words yaad nahi aa rahe par Mann ko jitna halka rakho life utni hi asaan aur anandmay hoti jati hai. :)
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So true, the less the burden the more happiness we experience in life.
Exactly 😊
May be due to her responsibility as a elder sister, she proved ro be stern. I agree with the fact that we have to let go pain and be more free .
Yes, she always would feel that she was responsible for many things in our life
Yes this usually happens in our Indian family system.
I feel sad of what happened to your sister Ma'am @nainaztengra I will include her in my prayer that she will get better very fast ♥️
Thank you for that.
Blessings to you!
I hope your sister, will get well soon ma'am, so that she can enjoy her life more.😊
Thank you, She is better now
It's great to hear ma'am. 😊 She would surely enjoy her life more.😊
Releasing the past and been free with people around most especially family members have a positive impart in one's physical and mental health...wish she get well soon 🙏
Thank you, Love and time heals every pain
Indeed
Sometime family's are best in all such to say.
I pray that your sis understood this and be happy where she is
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