Reflection Sunday | Control

Sometimes the best thing that could happen to you is for you to just be you because not everyone understands you. To some extent, we do have people who do understand us but to the full extent, we are the ones who know and understand ourselves. From our flaws to our fears and our strengths, everything is all about how we choose to use them to our advantage and also how they can be self-sabotaging.

Sometime this year I tried to take things into people's hands to see if they know what's best for you. Hear me out, there are times when you have to delegate control to others which is very good.

However, the issue with making such a decision is that you dont know what it is that you want because if you know what you want and have a burning desire to go after it there's no reason to let others do it for you.

From managing my business for a while to learning new courses to other ventures I can't recall anymore I made sure to do them to the best of my ability. Moving forward I think I should start taking more control instead of support. This year I needed support which I did get but for me to move past where I am right now I need to take over. From this year if I didn’t learn a thing I've learned is that if you want something done it's best to do it yourself.

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