I Love To Love

Love is weird that even if we think it goes both ways it's not that
way. Love you see goes one way.

For instance, God love humans and he doesn't have to wait for humans to love him before he loves them, The same goes for parents' love for their children, they dont need to check if their kids love them before they shower their love on them.

This is how love is however these days we think that love is one-way and transactional and that if those we love dont love are back then we have the right to withdraw our love.

Well, the truth is that that is not love it is something else entirely because for one you dont have to wait for people to love you before you love them back.

Nonetheless, we are all learning and we will never be able to learn and understand everything in this world before we leave it behind, but you see the issue of love and relationships many people may never be able to differentiate between the two till they meet their end.

Some people in a relationship right now sometimes mistake their relationship for a love relationship even though it is not due to how they see their partner and how they think their partner should react in a certain way.

I talked about how I've been single for years now with no partner to call my own but the truth is that I did find some people who find me attractive and we both fancy ourselves but then they would always want something that I cannot give them just so I can prove my love to them.

Personally, if I have to prove my love to you in a materialistic way just because you made me then have it in mind that I only like you because the love you see is something that can't be proven.

I could recall my first partner, merely seeing her alone could make my whole day bright and you could almost see the spark inside my eyes whenever I stared at her. This is how I define love because I can't prove whatever happens in my biology towards her, note that this is not about how sexy, pretty or any other thing.

I've heard so many negative things about her enough to stop whatever we've got going and so has she. Im not a bad boy but im not perfect either I've broken a lot of hearts in the past but that has never stopped me from loving someone with my whole heart.

But lately, I've not seen anyone who could give me that unexplainable spark, that chemistry with no formula and those eyes filled with energy whenever you see one another. This is how indefinite love is because when you love someone most times you dont need them to tell you what they need before you know what it is that they want.

We are spiritual beings and I think love is the most spiritual emotion which is why is hard to find theae days due to how we have been detached from our spiritual and psychic power but when you stay loving and make it unconsitional trust me that is when miracles happen to you, your patner and those around you for no reason.

I've seen this happen in my life but maybe im only exaggerating, regardless, love is not easy either but when you have it you have everything else.

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