Staying Sane.

Since I became a mother, I haven't really had the good time to properly taking care of myself, if you know what I mean, motherhood sure does take a lot of my time and so far it hasn't been funny trying to remain sane, this is because of thworkloadad that I usually do apart from my mother chores. Someone had come to ask me this question and I was dumbfounded when she did. She asked "Do you ever have a good rest", now looking at how she had asked that question she must have noticed the way I try to do things, and for someone like me who does many things at once, the only time I ever was home on the afternoon was recently when I was sick, I usually prefer to be out and about, but that I discovered it wasn't the best kind of life I need.

Jared Rice

This makes me feel like I am not giving myself the attention I need, to me I don't think of making myself beautiful or anything because I feel I am already beautiful and what is more important to me is making my kids comfortable and having the best for them and this is the same thing my husband is trying to achieve also, I know it is essential to have a good appearance which I think I do, but sometimes getting to have a clean and good appearance cost much this days than normal.

If my kids are looking good and beautiful, then it is a joy for me because then I am more at peace with them being okay, and then at a later time, I find ways to make sure I am also catered for, but not the expense of my kids well being.

I have this mentality Because they are kids and don't deserve to be treated in any other way. I believe that bringing them to this world makes them our prior responsibility and we should hereby take them first in anything we do and this is the reason why I prioritize my physical look and not health.

My work also takes a toll on me, especially when I am swamped with orders and I have to go here and there just to make sure everything is a success, and if I don't do this I won't be comfortable when I fell sick, I was told to reduce the stress because it was becoming to much.

So as an advice to myself, I have decided to cut some slack on some certain things and to make sure I feed myself well and also to pamper myself a bit on certain occasions. By doing this I can be rest assured of a good life and better health and a sound mind in all I decide to do.

Truly having a good and sane mind , helps a person to reason or think well, this way people are assured that you are well and safe in all your dealings.

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