Bent Rib

The art of mastering human behaviors is a very crucial one to master. Not many can do it properly and as long as they don't master it up to a certain level, the weakness in this section hardly hits every now or then. You know, I am struggling in the section a lot which leads to much unnecessary chaos. Many of them get so serious that they make things go out of control, I act like crazy, which worsens the situation even further, like fuel.

Oh yeah, the failure to handle a situation properly acts like fuel due to the incorrect approaches made by the person. Come on, telling you from my experiences. This one is based on the recent one which hasn't been dried yet.

📸 Grégoire Hervé-Bazin

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Treat women kindly, for a woman was created from a bent rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is the top part, so treat women kindly.”

Yeah, from the ribs of a man. Now the thing is that if we put pressure on this, it will be bent even more and might be cracked as well. So whenever dealing with them we must keep in mind where they came from, they came from the bent rib of ours. So accept the fault in you, not them. The easier it is for you to accept the easier it is for you to handle.

Okay, you got it about where I am heading with my today's writing. Hell yeah, a man is incomplete with a woman. We both are the most important part of ourselves and if the connection between us isn't strong enough then it will surely create clashes and invite unnecessary problems. Actually, over the last few months, I have understood pretty well that they can be easily fooled if we act fools. Yeah, act a fool to make them fool. How to do so? Accept the fact that they are never wrong, you are, and the blame is on you.

I will be like,” Yeah, whatever you are saying is true, it was me who did it wrong, lemme me correct this right now.” Well, what's wrong with helping your girl a little more with the things that you feel have an impact? Let them be satisfied venting out their frustration and there is an automatic cooldown feature to calm themselves. It's on me not to let our clash trigger the destructive mindset. Gotta be real cool, gentle, and polite, and make things done that we needed to get done earlier in the morning.

Day by day I am trying to master these tactics so that the pressure on the rib doesn't crack. Keep me in your prayers,
Have a great day,
TYake Care.