The Love Of Money And Trust Issues Among Humans
The strong feelings we humans have towards money can never be separated and the reason why is that, it is a means of surviving and with that positive aspect we always ensure that we don't miss such opportunity to enable our money is safe and protected.
The emotions people show towards money is a feeling of how important the means is in our everyday lives and the ways we work in making this money is never easy and that's why every penny matters a lot which we intend to keep it to ourselves because we work for it.
The love of money have really develop the act of trust issues among humans and this doesn't happen between friends but with even people who are of close relation to us as well. Trust issues with finance however becomes more alarming especially when having past experience and this however distract the idea of keeping or leaving your money with people in other not to regret again.
There are people who lend money to other people in other for them to settle or balance the issue that made them borrow but then it becomes a bigger issue to pay back and that is one of the restrictions that makes people to avoid lending money out.
I happens to be someone who can borrow or lend money to people if am in position to but then I have an attitude that is always part of me that always make me wonder if that is the reason people behave like that.
If I borrow money to people I have an attitude where I don't ask for my money even if I am really in need of it and if it have come to my notice that even the people that borrowed the money don't even bother to refund because they feel am not complaining.
This kind of scenario however can be a test in one side to study people reaction likewise it can just be a normal feeling to help in giving when being in position to. But then people take advantage of it when it is really not necessary because this however will make such people not borrow again if they notice the response or feedback of such people.
We humans however are the cause of why trust issues is becoming rampant in our financial lives. Though money have a powerful feeling especially if you can't control it and this is why we see people misbehaving when you leave money with them.
When someone is in need at a time, he or she can make the whole promise to return the money back because they are opportuned to get it but when it is time to pay back it becomes a major problem and difficult to pay.
We really can't trust people with money and why this is so is that we can't trust ourselves either likewise not trusting the actions we can take. We however see the true colour of people when they are swimming in money and when they were still struggling, majority of them were humble.
This is already part of us as humans and it is only few who have plans for themselves that derive the attitude to control themselves towards money why those who get carried away spend lavishly. The love of money and trust issues will always be part of us as humans, it only now require how we intend to balance our financial lives towards the two.
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