Divorce: What do you think is the cause and how can it we do better? A must watch

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Hey Hive Family, it's another time for us to learn and share the knowledge we have with each other. Today I would like us to have a conservation on "Divorce"

The concept of Divorce and what is acceptable can vary widely depending on religious leaning, culture, personal belief, and certain situational factors.

However, in today's changing world what is acceptable or seen as natural and normal keeps evolving.

In today's video, I'll be sharing with you three (3) things I believe to be the cause for the growing number of Divorce and broken homes .

I am not the smartest or most informed on the subject matter which is why I would like to hear your unique point of view on the subject matter, the questions asked would be the guide.

Thanks for watching. I look forward to hearing from you.

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First of all, watching this is like a breath of air🤗. I'm hoping you make this a series of some kind because I would love to hear more from you concerning different topics.

Now, to the topic at hand, I absolutely agree with you. Although the high rate of divorce doesn't scare me.

I feel like there is absolutely no difference in the quality of marriages in older times versus marriages now. The only thing that has changed is that women feel bolder and more confident to divorce their husbands as opposed to them when divorce was not an option.

Maybe this has affected premature marriages that could have been salvaged, but I believe you're better safe than sorry.

Like I always say, the quality of a marriage is not dependent on the length because I can assure you, there are people that are flat out miserable in their marriages, and you see them celebrate 50 years and above.

The quality lies in the health of the relationship between husband and wife. Is there mutual respect, love, warmth, consideration, great communication, and other necessary values needed to keep the marriage healthy?

If these are found lacking then there's no wonder the rate of divorce is skyrocketing.

And to answer your question, sadly, people don't look out for these important things during courtship. Either because they don't care or they weren't taught how to.

I know you didn't ask but I'll give you this advice anyway😅.
You will find what you are looking for. If you allow the unsure situation of things deter you from focusing on finding a great girl, then you'll find what you're looking for.

If you search for a girl, with the mind of "nothing dey street", then you'll find the nothing wey dey street.

Amazing video, I enjoyed it🤗
Keep it coming!

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P.s: I read your comment three times.

I was super super excited, like, you mean someone took out time to type this? It really made me glad no caps.

"Now to the topic at hand" lol, you just brought out a unique perspective to this whole thing I won't lie.

I never really thought of the fact that some marriages that celebrate 50 years and all may not necessarily be happy to be with each other, they just didn't have the option or weren't bold enough to divorce each other.

On the point you made about people not knowing what to look out for during courtship, I couldn't agree more. Truth is, God forgive me o, most people these days are just after the money, the big bum bum and fine face with a touch of butterflies in their bellies

Hehehehe (in Rema's voice). They don't know that it takes more than that to make a marriage work.

And yes, thanks for the kind words of advice that sounded like a threat sha 😅.

In conclusion, I sincerely appreciate your view on this conversation.

I intend to do more of these, so help me God. Again, I sincerely appreciate your kind words and insight.

Tiri gbosa for you.

Gbosa!
Gbosa!!
Gbosa!!!

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thanks for the kind words of advice that sounded like a threat sha 😅.

It's not a threat my dear😅😅😅
And you're most welcome🤗

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One thing we should understand now is that people don't marry for love alone and many people go into marriage with the thought of "If he does what I don't like or if she does what I don't like, we would divorce"
The place of love have been reduced to zero why other things have taken priority. We are in the age where people claim to be woke and don't want to accommodate any inconvenience
Its sad that people don't want to stay with the end and some are ready to divorce if the husband is rich, they want to have half the wealth and spend money the way they like.

Well, there are some justifications for divorce but many of them are unserious. I just

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"I just?...." Where's the rest of the comment?
😭😭😭

But you are absolutely right. Most people aren't as tolerant as previous generations used to be, no gree for anybody is the new motto and order of the day.

Additionally, some women (with due respect) see divorce as an opportunity to cash out if they are married to a wealthy man.

However, I do believe as you said there often justifications for certain divorces.

Big Fash, Baba Agbalagba. I really appreciate your insight and contribution. Oil dey your head egbon.

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I just stop there. hehehehheh
Thanks for the compliment

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