Week 158: The children that life gave me

To participate in this initiative, I selected this topic: Children (one) If you have children.

Life, yes, has given me three beautiful girls, without planning some, they came without me expecting them, it was a blessing really, in the most vulnerable moments, at my point of decline with my partner, perhaps it was the best of the relationship, since its duration was maintained only by them...

Since I was very young I had planned my life plan, a social stereotype: Study, graduate, work, get married, grow together as couples and have a family, yes, this is where the pattern of children comes in, we dream of them, to make our relationship a final complement, since it is the pinch that makes us mature and see life from another scenario, definitely, it was my experience...

Maybe I let myself be carried away by the dictates of society, the one that moralizes everything, that marks the guidelines of what you should and should not do... But I do not regret anything, absolutely nothing, everything is perfect, as it happened, including the ups and downs, the reason why, only God knows...

I learned to mature, to love and to love unconditionally, yes, I learned these gifts only when I was a mother, when I had my daughters I understood all this, only then I assimilated that phrase: For the children anything goes...

My daughters have been my best reason and engine to keep moving my world, they have been my strength, my fortitude and my motivation to keep giving my best to life, it has not been easy, but hand in hand with God and with them, everything has been possible...

If I were to be born again, I would not plan the birth of my daughters, I will wait for the universe to give me what I need, at the right time and place...

One came when I finished my studies at the University in 2002, she taught me to go ahead and finish my career, raising her and studying at the same time, that in spite of the difficulties, everything is possible with unconditional love...

The second one came in 2006, in that search for a house of my own, she taught me to look for improvements in order to have stability in life...

The last one arrived in 2012, in the most vulnerable moment of my life, the most decisive, because she taught me to be brave, to start taking the most important decisions of my life...

They, all of them, gave me encouragement, that if I could raise them alone, since it was my biggest fear, then I put my plan into action in 2016, to leave my father, since I had postponed it for years, I had tried everything, there was nothing more to do in blind eyes that did not look at reality, I did not see how he mistreated me and hurt me, for him everything was normal...

I am simply grateful to God and Life, to the Universe itself, which has given me three treasures, three great princesses to continue giving the best of me and giving them all my love, despite everything that is happening, children are the greatest blessings that come into our lives...

Finally, I want to invite you to participate in the initiative that @galenkp has called for this weekend.

Here is the link if you would like to participate

I say goodbye, until a next weekend meeting ☺️☺️☺️

The images are from my family gallery 🥰🥰🥰