Make Someone's Day With A Compliment/Alegra el día de alguien con un cumplido (English /Spanish)

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Warmest greetings all. Hope you are well in body and mind.
It's a Motivational Monday and I hope you are motivated to have a productive week.

This is a post I've shared sometime ago in another community and since resharing a post is allowed, I though to share here, who knows, it might motivate someone.

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As humans and social beings, we all love to receive compliments, hardly will you find someone who says that he or she doesn't like compliments.
I don't know if you have because I haven't.

No matter how simple a compliments is, it usually have a great positive impact on the receiver and the people around him or her. Oh, how I love compliments.😀. I give a lot of it and receive too.

Giving compliments wouldn't take anything away from you or make you feel less of a person. No, it won't, rather it will make you feel complete as a human being, good, fulfilled.
In this turbulent times, the least we can do is to give compliments to each other.

Is it necessary to give compliments?

Do you think that compliment has any role it plays in our lives, is it really important to human beings?
It is overly important, such that it cannot be over emphasized.
Both the one who gives, and the one who receives the compliments, benefit a lot from this simple act. Yes, giving compliments is a very simple act which does not require much words.
Words like "you look good", "you did a great job", "your attire is beautiful", "you are beautiful or handsome", "you gave a good speech there", "your content is very educative", "don't give up, you can do it", "you are the best", "thank you", are all simple words which serve as compliments and these have a lot of positive impact they have on the receiver.

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Let's look at what compliments does

  • It uplifts one's spirit bringing joy to such a person.
    Imagine yourself having a rough day and someone suddenly compliments your dressing, it brings beautiful smile to your face and happiness thereafter. That is the beauty of compliment.
    Not only the receiver shares in this happiness, the giver also feels happy and good about himself for making someone happy.

  • A word of compliment helps boost the receiver's self confidence. This is exactly what these simple words like "that was awesome, "you are amazing", or "you can do it", "I believe in you" etc. do.

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  • Compliments serve as encouragement and lead to increased performance.
    There's no better way to motivate someone into performing optimally than complimenting his or her work, article or content.
    Endeavor to always leave a word of compliment after reading someone's blog post.

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  • Giving compliments fosters better relationship between the giver and receiver. When people around you notice that you are the type who likes giving compliments, they would like to associate with you.
    Some can go to the extent of seeking your friendship, confiding in you and rooting for you.

Things to note about compliments

  • Compliments shouldn't be solicited. You don't tell someone to compliment you, rather it has to genuinely come from the giver's heart.

  • Compliments shouldn't always be about looks, dressing, possessions etc. Extend it to someone's achievements, work, project, etc.

  • Compliments should be reciprocated.
    When someone throws a compliment at you, be kind enough to say "thank you, with your own words of compliment following it"

  • Compliments should be genuine and from the heart. Flattering isn't compliment.

  • Compliments shouldn't be gender based or age specific. Anyone can give compliments. A male can compliment a female and vice versa. The elderly can compliment the young and the young in like manner.
    Even in workplace, nothing stops a staff from complimenting his or her manager, superior or boss. Yes, they too are humans and deserve to receive those words of encouragement, compliment. You know, it shouldn't always be them doling those words out.

Finally, make giving compliments a habit, a lifestyle because it's the right thing to do.
Put a smile on someone's face today, give that compliment, don't hoard it.

From me to you You are amazing, and you can do it, don't give up on yourself

Thank you for visiting my blog.

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Saludos cordiales a todos. Espero que estés bien en cuerpo y mente. Es un lunes de motivación y espero que estés motivado para tener una semana productiva. Esta es una publicación que compartí hace algún tiempo en otra comunidad y como se permite compartir una publicación, pensé en compartirla aquí, quién sabe, podría motivar a alguien.

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Como humanos y seres sociales, a todos nos encanta recibir elogios y ser apreciados, difícilmente encontrarás a alguien que diga que no le gustan los elogios y el aprecio.
No sé si tú tienes porque yo no.

Por muy simple que sea un cumplido, suele tener un gran impacto positivo en quien lo recibe y en las personas que lo rodean. Oh, cómo me encantan los cumplidos.😀. Doy mucho y recibo también.

Hacer cumplidos no te quitaría nada ni te haría sentir menos persona. No, no lo hará, más bien te hará sentir completo como ser humano, bien, realizado.
En estos tiempos turbulentos, lo menos que podemos hacer es felicitarnos unos a otros.

¿Es necesario dar cumplidos?

¿Crees que ese cumplido tiene algún papel que juega en nuestras vidas, es realmente importante para los seres humanos?
Es demasiado importante, de modo que no se puede enfatizar demasiado.
Tanto el que da, como el que recibe los cumplidos, se benefician mucho de este simple acto. Sí, dar cumplidos es un acto muy sencillo que no requiere muchas palabras.
Palabras como "te ves bien", "hiciste un gran trabajo", "tu atuendo es hermoso", "eres hermoso o guapo", "diste un buen discurso allí", "tu contenido es muy educativo" , "no te rindas, puedes hacerlo", "eres el mejor", "gracias", son todas palabras simples que sirven como cumplidos y tienen un gran impacto positivo en el receptor.

Veamos qué hace los cumplidos

  • Eleva el espíritu trayendo alegría a tal persona.
    Imagínese que tiene un día difícil y alguien de repente felicita su vestimenta, le trae una hermosa sonrisa a la cara y felicidad a partir de entonces. Esa es la belleza del cumplido.
    No solo el receptor comparte esta felicidad, el que da también se siente feliz y bien consigo mismo por hacer feliz a alguien.

  • Una palabra de elogio ayuda a aumen tar la confianza en sí mismo del receptor. Esto es exactamente lo que hacen estas simples palabras como "eso fue increíble", "eres increíble" o "tú puedes hacerlo", "creo en ti", etc.

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  • Los elogios sirven como estímulo y conducen a un mayor rendimiento.
    No hay mejor manera de motivar a alguien para que se desempeñe de manera óptima que elogiar su trabajo, artículo o contenido.
    Esfuércese por dejar siempre una palabra de elogio después de leer la publicación de blog de alguien.

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  • Dar cumplidos fomenta una mejor relación entre el que da y el que recibe. Cuando las personas que te rodean notan que eres del tipo al que le gusta hacer cumplidos, les gustaría asociarse contigo.
    Algunos pueden llegar al extremo de buscar tu amistad, confiar en ti y apoyarte.

Cosas a tener en cuenta sobre los cumplidos

  • No se deben solicitar cumplidos. No le dices a alguien que te felicite, sino que tiene que venir genuinamente del corazón del dador.

  • Los elogios no siempre deben referirse a la apariencia, la vestimenta, las posesiones, etc. Extiéndalos a los logros, el trabajo, el proyecto, etc. de alguien.

  • Los cumplidos deben ser correspondidos.
    Cuando alguien te lanza un cumplido, ten la amabilidad de decir "gracias, seguido de tus propias palabras de cumplido".

  • Los elogios deben ser genuinos y de corazón. Halagar no es un cumplido.

  • Los elogios no deben basarse en el género ni en la edad. Cualquiera puede dar cumplidos. Un hombre puede halagar a una mujer y viceversa. Los ancianos pueden felicitar a los jóvenes y a los jóvenes de la misma manera.
    Incluso en el lugar de trabajo, nada impide que un miembro del personal felicite a su gerente, superior o jefe. Sí, ellos también son humanos y merecen recibir esas palabras de aliento, halago. Ya sabes, no siempre deberían ser ellos los que reparten esas palabras.

Finalmente, haga un hábito, un estilo de vida dar cumplidos porque es lo correcto.
Pon una sonrisa en la cara de alguien hoy, haz ese cumplido, no lo acumules.

De mí a ti Eres increíble, y puedes hacerlo, no te rindas a ti mismo

Gracias por visitar mi blog.

Translated using Google translate

Traducido usando el traductor de Google

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That's why I keep admiring you 🫣🫣🫣, with my shy emoji... You're so pretty 😍

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beautiful explanation about the compliments, you are very right:

Compliments should be reciprocated.
When someone throws you a compliment, be kind enough to say "thank you, followed by your own words of compliment".

I think I am very shy, I always keep quiet when someone says something nice to me, I had not thought about it, you may think I am a hater, I will try to amend my fault, thank you for sharing this nice content.

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I have a similar tendency (despite my username lol), but when I work closely with someone I'm able to compliment them rather easily. It's the acceptance and reciprocation that's often tricky!

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I guess everyone does feel shy about being complimented at some point 😂.

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I can relate with this. Sometimes I do this too but overtime, I've learnt to return a compliment. It's so easy to do so try it and you will feel happy about it.

I'm glad you found value in my post, thank you so much.
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A wonderful and thorough analysis of compliments, how they're useful, and how to pass them on in a practical way! Very well done. 😊

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Thanks for the commendation.
I appreciate.

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Wow, this is awesome, thank you very much.
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i really do love it when someone is complimenting me but sometimes, i act like i do not care but i actually love it.

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Hehehe, we all love compliments, and yes I act same way too. 😂

Thanks for sharing your thoughts here.
You are amazing

#freecompliments

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Everyone loves a good compliment including me. Those that take you by surprise are even more awesome (the ones from total strangers) .
When I see a beautiful hairdo or outfit I say so immediately and it always brings a smile on a grumpy or still face.

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Absolutely true.

Those surprise compliments are always lovely.

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.

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I totally agree with you! I like that you mentioned the compliments about someone’s work, achievements… I always admire that❤️

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That's great.

Compliments shouldn't all be focused on looks, Infact when one receives compliment at work, and maybe some bonus for a job well done it motivates the person to do more.

Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.

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Pues para serte sincero tu me pareces atractiva, tienes una belleza "especial".

Y lo que cuentas en esta publicación es de mucha ayuda, porque por ejemplo me recordastes a mi que puedo re publicar contenido que realmente es útil, ademas de la importancia de hacer sentir bien a otras personas, asi que gracias.

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Pues para serte sincero tu me pareces atractiva, tienes una belleza "especial".

Gracias por el cálido cumplido.

Y lo que cuentas en esta publicación es de mucha ayuda, porque por ejemplo me recordastes a mi que puedo re publicar contenido que realmente es útil, ademas de la importancia de hacer sentir bien a otras personas, asi que gracias.

Sí, me alegró saber que aquí también se puede compartir una publicación antigua.

Es bueno felicitar a alguien porque podría ser justo lo que podría salvar a la persona del estrés y la depresión.

Gracias por pasar por aquí y compartir tus pensamientos aquí.

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Siempre es un gusto compartir los sentimientos, la buena vibra y todo lo que haga que nuestro ambiente se sienta agradable 🖤

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Compliment can go a long way into boosting someone's confidence enabling them to pull through a rough day. I for one love compliments, I will also do well to compliment others. Thank you so much for a well detailed explanation. You did a good job👍😊

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Absolutely true.

Compliments is good and everyone should endeavor to give it.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts

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I remembered hearing or probably from reading a book.. there’s a portion there, more like a mission or daily task, to give at least 1 compliment to another person. I think I did that in the past, but I stopped doing it .. I dunno when. I should do that again perhaps it would boost a morale of a person. It’s really nice to receive a compliment. That’s why it’s kinda impo to give one to others. 😌

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Exactly, giving compliments as much as you can is important as you wouldn't know who will be needing it most.

I think you should start it again.

Thank you so much for stopping by.

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Awesome! Indeed, compliments can go a long, long way of making someone's day🤗 keep it up beautiful people ❣️

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Absolutely, that's all we need to make our day beautiful.
I appreciate your wonderful comment.

#freecompliments

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Everyone loves a good compliment, we are just wired that way. Good job👍

#dreemerforlife

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Yes, we are. Who no like better thing 😂

Thanks for being here.

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You are welcome 🤗

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I literally smiled while reading this.

It is a nice way to lighten up someone’s mood. Compliments are very small things that won’t stress us at all, but it goes a long way in the receiver.

I love this

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Exactly, just a little smile and few words will do the magic

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.

#freecompliments

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One of the ways to make a good impact on people is by genuinely appreciating them, emphasis on genuine. It is innate of us as humans to desire kind words about us or what we do, alongside the like money, love, and sex. So, why not? It's much easier and faster to make friends with genuine appreciation.

Thank you for that reminder, luchyl.

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One of the ways to make a good impact on people is by genuinely appreciating them, emphasis on genuine

You are right, compliments should be genuine and not flattering.

It is innate of us as humans to desire kind words about us or what we do, alongside the like money, love, and sex

That's the way we are wired, lol 😂

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This is really cool and I think you hit the nail right on the head.

Giving compliments is really cool and truly, it should be reciprocated...

I came through Dreemport

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You are right, extending a word of compliment to someone really helps to brighten their day.

Thanks for stopping by
#dreemerforlife

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Weldone, I love your work. Compliment shouldn't be a flattery. Some compliment you and behind you they make comments that are not good enough to hear. Even though people are not genuine in their comments, we for our part must make our compliments genuine. I guess if we give reason for our compliments, the receiver will trust that we are being sincere.

#dreemerforlife

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Exactly, reasons for the complimenting someone should be backed with the word of compliment, that way the person will understand and appreciate it more.

Thanks for this wonderful submission.
#freecompliments

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I love all you wrote here. Not only is giving compliments a boost to the one receiving it even the one giving it experiences something. There is this joy that comes with giving compliments and being part of the reason someone has a cause to smile.

Came in from Dreemport

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Exactly, you know smile is contagious, so also is compliment.
Also everyone love good things well that's what I believe.
A word of compliments to someone begets joy and happiness.

I appreciate your wonderful reply, thank you.

#dreemerforlife
#freecompliments

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always a pleasure ❤️

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