We Can't Keep Hidden Our Pain
It's not easy to pretend you are okay when you were not. Pain is not something we can keep hidden forever, some times we need to be honest with ourselves and express our feelings if we are sad or depressed.
There was a time I was really feeling down but try to tell people that I am okay because I don't want people to be worrying about me but deep down, I know I was nothing near being okay and I always ask why everything is like that, I always think that I was the worst person that is why all that is happening to me but at the end of the day, I realized that what will happen will definitely happen since I don't have control over it.
About three months ago, my sister was defrauded, she's into POS business and some of her clients came for transaction that day. She doesn't have up to the amount the person wants to transfer and she promised her she will do it within an hour with the aim of going to the bank for deposit.
After that person left about 5 minutes after, she was preparing to go to bank and another customer came for withdrawing, and the man did the transfer of #250,000 to her. She gather all the money she have including the customer money and gave it to the man. After the man left she was happy that she doesn't need to go to bank anymore and tried to do the transfer from the POS machine but it was telling her insufficient fund.
Insufficient fund as how, maybe it is the network. She tried
it more than three times still the same so she checked her account balance and truly it's just the little amount she have in her account before the customer came that is there.
She thought she was dreaming but when she see that it is not a dream she went to bank to complain and they checked her account and no transaction was perform and the alert was a fake alert. That time, she can't describe what she was feeling, she feel so devastated
At first she keeps on telling her self that it's a dream not until the customer that asked her to do transfer came to ask for her money, the customer money plus her business money disappeared just like that and she was telling everybody that she was okay but I know she is not okay because I was once there, telling everyone that I am okay when am actually not.
She is being getting sick since then and she continues to tell people she's okay, it hit her harder than she think but I told her to let it go. I told her to free her mind in order to get better, I couldn't help her financially but at least I try to encourage her. I told her to cheer up and not try to hide her pain because it is okay not to be okay.
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I will advice her to worry less, it is good to form a union in which every kind of business operates. It would be easy to pass aceoss such information about customer and fake alert.
I wouldn't blame her at this point but I want to say that nature will make a revenge for her. If you are into POS business always check and confirmed your account using mobile app and ensure it has top up with what was previously in the account.
As long as I know, the person would exhaust the money and keep doing till he gets caught.
A young guy actually did same to my friend but luckily the guy noticed him after three months and arrested him there, the money was refunded and he was let go by the civil defense. Let her worry less because worry will increase issues the more. Just report it to your creator and try to see how you can move on.
Thank you my dear sister.
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What a great lost that occur to your sister well God may has a plan more profitable than that for her,so she shouldn't over worked herself up because an adage will say "to be alive is better than a dead soul"
Thanks for your concern