Do Not Be Emotionally Unstable
Hello, I welcome you to my blog. I can see the almighty God is taking good care of you, as well as I.
He's been fulfilling his promises in our lives every passing day.
Well, it's my first time posting in this community, and I hope I'm highly welcome.
I, want to speak on what I title Do not be Emotionally unstable. This topic will help people's lives, especially those who are emotionally unstable, as our topic says.
Please, do not hesitate to read down, because I'm sure you'll get to know why you're like that.
Well, Emotion, as we can see, is inevitable in human life. Honestly, if you're a human being, and you've never been emotional ever since you were born; I bet you, you have a serious problem. And I advise you to meet a medical practitioner to get clarification on what you're experiencing.
Don't think that it's a normal thing not to be emotional at all. It's right to be emotional because we are flesh and blood, but while being emotional, we must know our limits so we won't be emotionally unstable by our actions.
Of course, our actions depict who we are, what we can do, and what we cannot do.
**What does it mean to be emotional **?
When someone is said to be emotional, it means he or she has developed feelings for someone.
Note: Anything that is emotional, starts from the heart. That is why, we love people, based on how we see them. The human brain is also involved in this act.
Once you start thinking about the opposite sex, believe me, your brain is active at the moment.
I'm going to deal mainly with emotions developed for the opposite sex.
When I was a child, I hated the word emotion. I did that because, each time adults talked about that, I found it so difficult to understand them. I came to understand it when I grew up, and l like it as well.
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever been emotional? If yes, what made you emotional? The reason is best known to you.
I want to share my personal experience of me being emotional, and the advice I got.
I have a male friend, who happens to be my brother as well. I can't deny the fact that I love him so much because of who he is.
I see him as a brother and a friend. When I say brother, I, mean someone who understands everything about me.
He understands my body Language. He knows when I'm sick, happy, hungry, and when I'm sad. When I met him, I thought he was one of those guys who could take advantage of every lady they see, but believe me, he's exceptional.
I've been walking with him for the past two years, and I can boldly tell you that he's good. I don't see any offense in saying this because this is what I've tasted, and I've come to believe in what I saw.
I went to his house one fateful day, and he asked me to sit down that he wanted to speak with me, and I obeyed him.
He asked me a question. He said to me if I've ever been emotional, and I was honest enough to say yes.
He asked me again, what made me emotional about that person, and I said his character and the respect he has for young ladies.
Although he was satisfied with my response, he went ahead to advise me. I can't forget those words he said to me. Those words would continue to live in me till eternity.
He told me no matter how emotional I am about the opposite sex, that I should never, in my lifetime, be emotionally unstable.
I didn't understand what he meant by that. He explained it to me. He said I should always be able to control my emotions towards the opposite sex rather than allowing myself to be controlled by my emotions.
I asked him why he said that, and he said, we could sometimes be deceived by our emotions. Honestly, I was satisfied with his response, and I thanked him for always seeing it as a duty to advise me on certain things that I was ignorant about.
We must learn to control our emotions no matter what. We could be deceived by our emotions, as he said, and that could lead to our downfall.
No matter what, try as much as possible, not to be emotionally unstable.
Thank you for reading through my post.