Unattractive traits I would not like in a woman

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Every lady is beautiful, and this is further buttressed by the saying that "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder." As much as a container can be attractive or not, its value lies in its content.

Women are generally considered fragile beings with characters and attributes that clearly differentiate them from men. Beyond the physical appearances, the behaviors and attributes of every lady go a long way toward defining who she is.

I have come across several ladies of different classes and ages, and my conclusion is this: what keeps the relationship between a man and a woman strong does not lie in the physical attributes alone but, to a large extent, in the compatibility and behaviors of both parties.

As a man, a number of attributes in ladies do turn me off, and perhaps these may be similar to those of other men. Generally, i find unattractive women who are:

1. Stubborn
2. Lousy and talkative
3. Lie or steal
4. Incapable of intellectual reasoning
5. Lazy, e.t.c.

Men generally appreciate women who are able to complement them in life or their endeavors, and hence, it is a big turn-off for me when I encounter lazy women who would slow my pace rather than help me improve. I understand the fragility of women and do not expect them to be optimal when tasks are assigned; however, I get disgusted when even the meager tasks are left unattended to or not promptly done. I really do not wait for work to be done when I am in the company of lazy women, as I quickly find my way to make up for the traits I find unattractive.

Another trait I detest in women is stubbornness. I do not expect women to submit totally to instructions or decisions; however, some women do forget the place of womanly comportment and go all out to express their stubbornness. I have come across women who can argue relentlessly with either their fellow females or men without seeing the need for some reservations.

By and large, there are modifiable traits that can be worked upon for improvement, especially when women are willing.

Thank you for reading. I would love your comments and contributions 🤗