Amazing features of self that I am proud

The mirror, in addition to what people say about you, could tell a lot about your features, and beyond the ephemeral, those physical attributes could influence one's perspective about oneself. Is it not awkward that the children born into wealthy homes are often beautiful while those born to the middle or lower class find themselves a little less appreciative of their physical appearance? I was in the position of the latter for a significant number of years and battled with low self-esteem, finding it hard to appreciate myself. It was a sorry case of damning my physical appearance at the detriment of every other feature one has. Maybe, just maybe, this is a reason why some people are termed introverts when actually it's the outside world they are afraid to contend with.

Thankfully, times and things began to change, probably because of maturity and excessive stare into the image that reflected in the mirror. I began to appreciate myself gradually and raise my shoulders for the world to see I was an emerging force of excellence. Realizing I had a good number of contributions to my environment made me more bold to reveal myself to the world around me.

My foremost selling point was my spoken English, and this was thanks to no other than my extra mural tutor while I was in elementary school. My grades started on a wrong and rough foot, but my parents did not give up on me, and neither did I give up on myself. Thus, I focused much of my energy on excelling and, thankfully, became a force to reckon with right from elementary school. My first story written (though unpublished) was in junior secondary, and that was probably one of the basics of my fair writing skill and passion till today. Over time, I have had conscious note of my spoken English, though not as good as the grammarians but good enough to be presentable in public discussions. Alongside was some sort of confidence (not arrogance) I built over the years. The confidence must have emanated from the several failing experiences I had so much that I became immune to them and could face any situation or anybody, respectfully still.

Most people's perceptions about me are confusing when they hear my name: Musa James. People often want to inquire what part of religion I belonged to, and I enjoyed giving out a tease by identifying with the two major religions here in Nigeria. At least, my name brings a need to spark some conversations, which oftentimes results in deeper talks bothering about my origin and tribe, which often I am proud to talk about.

For the keen observers, their eyes are quick to scan the hair on my head, which is curly and dark, especially when combed. Good thing I don't like to keep fully grown hair so one is able to appreciate the hair appearance better. The texture is equally appealing, and personally, this is my favorite body feature. 'Are you Fulani?' is a question I get often, but then I have to explain to them that I am not; however, I have a northern lineage, and I used to enjoy speaking with the Northern Nigeria tone.

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