Is resentment a problem?

While everyone may feel resentment at some point in their lives, it is not necessarily a universal emotion. The amount of resentment felt will vary from person to person and situation to situation.

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Liza Summer

Some people may be more likely to feel resentment than others, depending on their personality and life experiences. Furthermore, each individual's capacity to cope with and manage their resentment will have an impact on the amount of resentment they feel and how they ultimately express it. For example, someone with a more resilient personality may be able to recognize their feelings of resentment and process them. This will enable them to move forward without expressing resentment toward others.


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What is resentment? Resentment is a feeling of bitterness, indignation, or anger towards someone or something that you feel has wronged you in some way.

It usually stems from a sense of injustice, hurt, or frustration. It can be the result of an experience that has left someone feeling powerless or helpless.

It can cause a person to become stuck in the past, unable to move forward and forgive. For instance, if someone was wrongfully fired from their job, they may feel resentment towards the company, their boss, or the person who took their job.

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Ron Lach

This resentment can manifest itself in feelings of bitterness, anger, and resentment which can prevent them from moving forward, even if they have found a new job.

Resentment is a feeling of hurt, frustration, and bitterness towards someone who has wronged you or someone you care about. It can arise from a breach of trust, perceived injustice, or a feeling of being taken advantage of. For instance, if an employee is passed up for a promotion they feel they deserve, they may develop resentment towards their employer for denying them the opportunity.


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Liza Summer

Resentment can be a powerful emotion, often causing the person to lash out in anger and avoid the person who hurt them. Resentment can build up over time, and it can be difficult to let go and move on. It can also have a negative impact on relationships, as it can lead to feelings of bitterness and mistrust.

If left unchecked, resentment can lead to self-destructive behavior and further damage to relationships.

There is no doubt that from what I have written here, you will be able to come to the conclusion that resentment is not an emotion any of us would want to experience at any time in our lives.

How to deal with resentment is a complex question, but here's the bottom line: resentment can be damaging to our mental and physical health and can hurt our relationships with others.

In conclusion, take a deep breath and just remember that everyone has issues, even the person you're resenting.Hehe

It is critical to take time to identify the root cause of your resentment and why it’s so difficult to let go. Recognizing and facing your feelings can help you to move forward and understand that there is no one-size-fits-all solution to dealing with resentment. Taking a step back and looking at the situation objectively can help you make progress in resolving it too.

Thanks for reading.



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harboring resentment is one of the worst things we can harbor, you are right some people harbor more resentment, it depends on what is causing it. Just like stress is very harmful to our health, it affects our blood pressure. many times we find it easier to hold it in than to let it out

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You have said it very well, resentment is linked to other strong emotions that make us feel a lot of emotional discomfort and although we all experience it differently, it always affects us and causes us a lot of harm.

Thank you for sharing your opinion with us and for supporting the theme of the month dear @jessicaossom. 💓

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It is my pleasure. Thank you for stopping by.🙂

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Very well written. If I feel I have been slighted in ANY way, multiple times, by the same person I tend to shut that person out of my life as they are not benefitting me personal growth-wise.

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A disruptive feeling that comes and goes and most of the times maybe in hibernation until its triggered again.

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