Chasing Dreams Across Borders ~ LOH 195
It is always painful to leave the warmth of your home behind; however, for many of us in an African country – Nigeria in particular – moving to another country is always an indication of a better and brighter tomorrow. So here it is – the economy doesn't provide much hope. Employment opportunities are limited today, and the problem affects even those of us who hold university degrees. Inflation scenarios remain on the high side, while wages continue to stagnate.
Conflict and insecurity remain rampant in too many places, and human rights remain violated in too many forms. In simple terms, one is doomed, the other is a death sentence, and the third is a grim future.
Hence, there are prospects of life in foreign countries, but at the same time, a part of us is aware that it is not going to be easy to begin all over again. Often we dream of being able to make a decent living, get an education for ourselves and our children, and to be able to build a safe life.
I remember when my church's choir coordinator, who is also a keyboardist, relocated to the UK with his family about two years ago, and to this day, he has always referred to it as one of the best decisions he has ever made for himself and his family. When I initially learned that they would be relocating, it was a bittersweet feeling. I was happy about that but sad that their physical presence would be greatly missed.
Of course, I know that adapting would not occur instantly even if I were the one to get the chance to travel abroad. Other immigrant friends, however, recount to me that the early days of learning a new language, adapting to a new culture, and fighting homesickness are not easy at all.
The idea of immigrating to another country is something that is thrilling as well as frightening to me in some way, as I have always wanted to try out a new culture and lifestyle. I attempt to have various outlooks concerning different people or places. On the same note, the concept of leaving my own home, loved ones, friends, and everything that is familiar and comfortable is quite unnerving.
But of course, I have my reasons for being willing to take this big step. I crave more advancement both in my personal and career paths than what the present setting can offer me. I have dreamt of having a better life not only for myself but for the future generations I intend to have. These problems in my home country such as political instability, violence, lack of jobs, etc., are also some of the reasons why I need to live in a stable country.
I understand that I might end up having to rebuild my life from the ground up – get housing, employment, friends, and family. The reality of having to toil and endure the loss of comforts for a better life ahead is something I am willing to embrace.
It may be uncertain, and it is apparent that it may be filled with a lot of emotional roller coasters. So, I want to meet this new stage of life with courage, flexibility, and positive thinking. It is an opportunity for change, to pursue personal development, as well as strive for the achievement of my aims and goals. I think I can build myself up in my new place gradually with some encouragement and direction.
I know that where there is a desire or intention to do something, there is always the means or ability to do it. A whole new world of possibilities is all set for you!
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Best to apply and make the move when younger, never delay in seizing opportunity when it arrives. Leaving country of our birth is not easy.
!LUV
!LADY
Certainly not easy.
Never is, always look at both sides, measure up pro's and con's carefully.
I definitely won't delay in seizing the opportunity when it comes.
One never knows what life brings our way...
Well to me I might be scared but I know if I was financially able to make the move ,it is something I would do with blinking twice.
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I will take this as a word of encouragement to myself. We all desire a change and when the opportunity comes, we should try to weigh the pros and cons.
Thank you for sharing!
!LADY
We get many thousands of immigrants from all over Africa over the last 5 years yet many return home or try going south to the USA. The most common issues in Canada is the high cost of living, high taxes and the lack of affordable housing. Nothing is guaranteed and Canada is not up to the reputation it should have.
I hope one day you can beat the odds and build the life you desire @jessicaossom
Wow, this is just pure truth, which most of the immigrants aren't aware of. I know this because friends who are there told me so. Living in Canada is indeed costly and I agree with you, it's overrated.
It may be hard and challenging, but everything happens for a reason. May you achieve all your dreams and goals in the future. Keep fighting!
When one has a goal to achieve especially one that will improve our lives and give us a good life, we don't hesitate to work towards it and have the mindset of working hard to achieve it. I also want to further my education but overseas as this country doesn't have enough of what it takes to help one grow. I also want to experience new culture and lifestyle.
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I think the most important thing is to weigh the pros and the cons when we have decisions like this to make. One thing is sure, moving to a new country is never easy, but others have done it and somehow adapted to their new environment.
#dreemerforlife
Moving to another country usually comes with mixed feelings including fear of how to adapt. But the way things are in this country, if you see chance to japa, no look back oo.
You said it all, yes it looks greener over there because of the things we experience in our great country but in all its not going to be easy at all.
#dreemerforlife