Contest #123 Ladies of Hive 💗||Why do people feel lonely? And foolish and dangerous fashions
Hello dear Ladies of hive community Today I am back with this new LOH initiative, I am so grateful!!! # Why do so many people feel lonely? The Chinese Philosopher Lao Tzu once said "Ordinary people hate loneliness, but the master makes use of it by embracing it and realizing that he is one with the universe". Psychology gives it the name of extreme loneliness, and it occurs when a person has this feeling of loneliness and is socially isolated for a prolonged period of time, the person feels unable to connect with someone and becomes more and more separated. Why is it so hard for people to make real connections when almost everyone wants to make real connections? Unfortunately we have lived in a society where many times they have played with our feelings, where they have not taken mental health seriously, where they have not valued what we are and what we can become. Sometimes a person who has been physically or verbally abused so many times, has not had her feelings reciprocated, has been pushed away or has been mocked and humiliated. The person wants to be loved and respected and I am not only talking about couple relationships, I am also talking about family and friendships. What happens when you lose trust in people after so much abuse, despite wanting to keep trying to connect with a person, distrust wins and does not give us the opportunity to open our minds and hearts with people who are really looking for a real connection with us. It is not so easy to tell someone to give herself the opportunity to meet, if we do not know what is really going on in her life and mind, we must understand that each person has her time to heal and realize that there are people outside her environment who would like to have a special and unique connection with her. ¿Cuál es la tendencia de moda reciente más tonta? What is the silliest recent fashion trend? Really a very silly fashion that seems to be a trend in many parts of the world for some time now and that persists and persists is the consumption of cigarettes and vaping, people often tell me that it is not so bad, "it relaxes me, it takes away my anxiety". But the fact is that in the long term it becomes a huge addiction. I have seen many young people my age use as much as cigarettes and vapers, many look to do it to fit in, look as many say cool, and others use it to relieve emotional burdens we don't know about, but they really don't see the damage they do to both their health. My grandmother smoked when she was young, she smoked for almost twelve years, she quit but the consequences were devastating, causing lung cancer, unfortunately my grandmother passed away. It is not a game, it is not something healthy, when I see people consuming them it gives me a lot of pain because I do believe that it is a fashion and a very dangerous, silly and unnecessary fashion in this world. Invito a participar a 👉 @carjuvival I invite 👉 @carjuvival to participate. Banners realizados en CANVA💗 Banners made in CANVA Imagen extraida de plataforma Pixabay💥 Image extracted from Pixabay platform Gifs extraido de la plataforma de Tenor💖 Gifs extracted from Tenor platform
A veces no sabemos lo que estamos pasando, nos sentimos solos y deseamos llenar ese vacío en nuestro interior con algo, a veces podemos confundir el estar solo con sentirse solo, pensamos que llenándonos de pensamientos como “No importa, mientras este solo mucho mejor” y llenas y llenas tu lugar con cosas materiales que al final no van a calmar el sentirse solo (OJO!! No digo que este mal, comprar cosas materiales,no es nada malo, pero en exceso tenemos que entender que algo estamos intentando tapar o llenar).
Sometimes we don't know what we are going through, we feel lonely and we want to fill that emptiness inside us with something, sometimes we can confuse being alone with feeling alone, we think that by filling ourselves with thoughts like "It doesn't matter, as long as I'm alone so much better" and you fill and fill your place with material things that in the end are not going to calm the feeling alone **(WARNING!! I'm not saying it's wrong, buying material things is nothing wrong, but in excess we have to understand that we are trying to cover or fill something).
A que voy con esto, no podemos juzgar a una persona, no podemos criticarla, seamos pacientes y empáticos, todo tiene su tiempo y su proceso y lo que podemos hacer es tratar de ayudar con lo que se pueda.*
What I mean by this, we can not judge a person, we can not criticize, let's be patient and empathetic, everything has its time and process and what we can do is try to help with what we can.
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Sorry about your grandma... It's a sad truth, loneliness kills too even though it isn't immediately.
Indeed, broken trust could make one withdraw in and shut away from connecting with people but it's always best to have people around sometimes.
Thanks for participating, all the best!
Thank you very much!
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Que bien post amiga, me gustó mucho tu participación. Y cuánta razón tienes, también creo que hay mucha gente que se siente sola tratando de llenar ese vacío con cualquier cosa💜
Muchas gracias amiga!!
You have highlighted a very important issue which we are facing in the name of fashion. Addictions start as style statements and then they grip you. I do not understand why one goes on that road in the first place.