Real quality time...






It is not worth working to pay high rents, high car installments, car insurance, credit cards, among other expenses more that arrive almost always the first days of each month.

That for me is not quality of life, that is being a slave to money and a kind of being poor that for example has been explained to me well.

Financial freedom has nothing to do with my quality of life, which also has nothing to do with the type of car I have or the house I also have among other "sumptuous" things.

I work intelligently, not to impress others, but to have a conscience and a calm heart, that's enough, that's enough for me, that's how I can go to sleep with my head calm.

Nowadays I see in my environment many people eager to make money at the expense of health and not having a life, the best thing to be happy is at least to have a home, my basic comforts and sleep happily without worries, or debts. Because living in the anguish of debts I don't wish it on anyone.

Quality of life is a great gift.

Sadly, many of my friends and family (especially men) live in homes where machismo reigns, I observe them very distressed because they have to pay a very high rent.

Without a doubt, everyone is happy in their own way. Suddenly, what for me is not quality of life for others yes, every comfort has a price.

What is not right is that in the home only the man is the provider and responsible for economic expenses and general finances.

To be a refuge, to be a home! It does not imply that only one person covers all the expenses (economy and finances) of the family. Of course, you have to be very careful in these cases with resentment, that one that comes from the insecurities of the person and the envy that also radiates.

These types of people are only okay when you help them, when they ask you for a favor and you do it, but if the circumstance is adverse, this person can become miserable and bring out the worst that human beings have, resentment.

Today people talk a lot about narcissism, disloyalty and other topics, but believe me, nothing is worse than a RESENTFUL, social.

As much as possible, surround myself with people who make me feel happy. We have to learn to manage quality time, please and let it be really a lot of quality time.

Without a doubt, we have to give structure to the mind, schedules, routines, habits the good ones, disorder generates mental chaos and time ceases to be of quality.

We have to check ourselves, because we keep looking for in each other what we don't have.

Janitze 🦋



Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva


Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia


Translation with |DeepL





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