No right to be wrong ...

Infidelity has always existed and will continue to exist, as much as there are the rules of love and the people who break them.

That of begging for love, humiliating oneself, from the point of view of begging for the love that is not given to you, that is a mistake the size of a cathedral.

Let's assume, that your partner at some point made a mistake, that he had an episode of midlife crisis, it's human.He has the right to be wrong.

And we have to check if at some point, each of us has not done it. All of us, in one way or another, have been unfaithful, even in thoughts, in a message, a compliment from someone, and we accept it.

Carla is a good friend, and she is currently going through a strong emotional process, she is jealous. Carla tells me that there is something very deep inside her, she tells him to leave him, but she can't because he supports her financially, she has the life she has of great comfort, thanks to him and she doesn't know when it will happen, the husband messes with the children of both and continues manipulating her with money🫰.

Carla, confesses to me that she feels imprisoned, cornered, as if locked in a place from which she cannot escape.

I think that many of us at some point get used to and accept, so as not to leave the comfort all this that I tell in this post, so as not to see the chaos.

Sometimes, we all have to see the chaos to be able to transform, although very scary, the descent to the Underworld is always necessary, we have to confront the storm if we want to get out of slavery, which after all is a storm, sooner or later it will end.

It's scary to go down to the Underworld, I've already lived it so many times, and that has made me appreciate the sunrise, sunset, a hug, the beautiful people who look me in the eyes, to value the innocence of animals, an afternoon of laughter with my best friend, we are miracles and life, and we have to take advantage of it in the best way. Be that as it may.

Getting up every day, taking a vigorous shower, drinking coffee and going out to dream behind my goals, is living.

Without a doubt.

Embracing our change process can be challenging, it is not linear, imperfect, it confronts us with fear, doubts, and that uncomfortable feeling of leaving our comfort zone.

Giving happiness is perhaps one of the most important attributes of love. And when our partner does not produce happy moments for us, then it's time to evaluate that relationship.

One of the great truths that ontological coaching taught me is that the world is not as it is, it is as everyone sees it.

Therefore, we can always show results to the outside world, our environment, in life itself, and there are no ways to disguise. Because there comes a time when you just want to be happy. Me??? I am happy with what I have and I am doing amazing with my 5 star pillow "a clear conscience" inside and out, with problems, conflicts, disagreements or without them.

Janitze 🌹