LOH CONTEST 209#

MY HEART, A HOME FOR MY BETTER HALF 💖
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Soulmate are considered to be separate souls that share a deep romantic or platonic relationship. Buh according to science the idea “of finding a soulmate” may not exist. People have an innate and scientifically supported to socialize and form relationships throughout their life.

Are soulmate myth or reality?
Many people dream of having soulmate some do in reality and others end up being only dreams. The idea of soulmate is both conscious and unconscious elements. Even if we do not intellectually believe in it we are still affected. As I said earlier many people consciously and unconsciously yarn for soulmate , it even makes Dem believe that one person out there is for them “RIGHT" person. Meeting your soulmate is like finding a piece of you that you didn’t know was missing. Even before speaking to them you feel this heavy force that fills every crevice between their piece of earth and yours, pulling you towards each other like a magnet. You can’t ignore it. Suddenly, you’re hyper-aware of their presence. Fighting it is no use; It’s an irrefutable force that relentlessly begs for your attention.
From the first words you speak there is ease and comfort. It feels like you’re talking to someone you already know but you don’t know them at all. Those first words transform that heavy pulling force between you into a vapor of energy that rises above you then settles back down gently; But instead of returning to the space between you, the energy surrounds you; Wraps around you; Cradles you; Holds you in that moment; Igniting a spark in your souls simultaneously. It’s no longer a strong pull but a gentle push; Nudging you towards one other. Soulmate are humans so they can hurt each other. Sometimes knowingly and unknowingly buh it maybe in de quest to satisfy one another.
Soulmate beliefs are there for the taking. They are not hard and fast rules. They are deeply personal and dynamic. Use a soulmate belief where and when it amplifies what you value and know to be your deepest truth today. Release the belief when and if it acts like a prison. Bring awareness to what you believe at this moment in time, witnessing whether and how it works for you.
Express your feelings allow for acceptance or rejection just to let go of the thoughts.
A soulmate is the one person whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soul, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, of awakening.
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Destiny and growth beliefs are independent of each other, which means you can hold one, both, or neither. People who believe in soul mates and don’t see problems as something they can overcome are said to have an “evaluation” perspective. Those who don’t believe in soul mates and see problems as something that can be worked through have a “cultivation” perspective. However, people can also believe in destiny and see problems as solvable, and these people are seen as “optimistic.” Not believing in destiny or the ability to work through problems is seen as a “hopeless” perspective. These latter two perspectives have received considerably less attention from researchers.
The psychology behind believing in soulmates
In an older 2004 study, researchers looked at two implicit theories of relationships:

1.Soulmate theory: finding a person who fulfills you or completes you
2.Work-it-out theory: finding someone who you care for and are willing to work with to find and keep happiness.

Research indicates that people who hold the soulmate theory (without necessarily knowing they do) have greater relationship satisfaction if – and only if – they feel they found the right person.
This held true even under stress, again, presuming they felt their partner was “the one.”
are seen by different world religions.
What are the different types of soulmates?
When it comes to soulmate facts, it is expedient to mention that your soulmate can be found in anyone. They could be your family members, colleagues, friends, etc. Here are the different types of soulmates so that you can easily identify them in your life. Just to list but a few;

1. Soul tie:
   Anytime you feel a soul tie, it could imply that another soul exists in your life for a specific reason. They can be romantic relationships that may come with a lesson that could make your life better.
   Often, they show up at a significant period of your life, and it looks like you have met them before.
2. Karmic soulmate:
   A karmic soulmate is someone you share an intense connection with, which may be difficult to maintain because of the burning passion between you.
   When you meet your karmic soulmate, you feel an instant connection with them, and you are likely to overlook their downsides because they feel perfect for you.

Psychology Finally Reveals the Answer to Finding Your Soulmate

Psychology is finally shedding light on the mystery that affects so many hearts and minds around the world in an effort to understand what truly makes two people compatible for a relationship.
We all as social creatures have a deep and underlying desire to find that one perfect person to spend the rest of our days with. That one person when you meet, you feel an uncontrollable attraction to and an illogical sense of familiarity with. As if you’ve known that person for a lifetime, or perhaps lifetimes. Whatever you want to call it, films and TV series alike have romanticized the phenomenon known as the soulmate. But what do we really know about the perfect mate or the ideal partner? There is a lot to it.
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The Issue With Compatibility

Dating sites like OkCupid.com or chemistry.com boast about their in-depth personality tests and claim that someone with similar answers to the questions on their tests can result in finding the perfect mate.
Now, this sounds very appealing for many different reasons. First, naturally you want to be with someone who shares the same values as you and perhaps even someone who enjoys similar activities like rock climbing, watching TV etc.Secondly, it only seems logical to search for another person that also wants to raise children and begin a family someday. Lastly, we have such a yearning for love as social creatures, that we will convince ourselves of just about anything in order to fill the empty spots in our hearts.
All of these reasons create quite the compelling case for compatibility sites, but how well and how long do the relationships that have similar interests and quirks truly last? This is where the problem comes in. I believe that each of us has a soulmate but due to high standards and expectations we make, we end up losing important people in our life and worst part can't find anyone else to fit in such position forever. Make decisions but remember that we are all humans and no one is perfect. We learn perfection and yet still have flaws.

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