Growing Older - Weekend-Engagement #215
Hello, guys!
Another weekend has come and it's timeeee...
Are you worried about growing older from a looks and financial security perspective? Explain - Use your own photos.
Hmmm... This topic actually hits me.
A week ago, I moved from what I've called home my whole life to a new place... I came to a new city looking for a better life, new opportunities to be financially settled.
However, this might take a bit since I've to wait for some situations to be solved, like my uncle's surgery.
But, getting back to the question, I do get worried about growing older from my looks. I don't feel like I'm a beauty or gorgeous person, I've many insecurities. Sometimes, I don't like my body or my face. It's something I've been dealing with since I was a teenager, although I've been trying to give myself more credit for the person I've become.
Right now, I'm financially broke. I have no job and I'm living with my sister. But this might not last forever. It's just momentarily. After my uncle's surgery, I have to find a job since I will have to pay rent, and I'm worried because I don't know if I will be able to get a great income so I can live decently.
I'm worried because I don't know what will happen in the next five months, or if I'll be a good-looking person to get a boyfriend or girlfriend... Who knows?
All I know is that I'm 31 years old, and I never thought this would be my life... and you would say: you are young... But I feel like soon I'll be 32, and life does not stop. So, it's time to work in me and my sanity.
You are beautiful though, you have a perfect set of eyes, a beautiful and thick eyebrows, and your hair is just gorgeous. I'm sure you'll grow old beautifully. But, you know, looks doesn't really matter when we get old. Beauty fade, but the goodness in your heart will never. And i'm sure, whoever saw the goodness in your heart will mark more to those people. So let's always choose to be kind. Though I too has a lot of insecurities, still, I want to let a fellow woman know that we are all beautiful in our own ways. But i'm sure you already know that. Right now, I'm more afraid about my financial security. I haven't really secured anything, but we can always try no ᕙ(͡°‿ ͡°)ᕗ
Thank you for your beautiful words. I truly appreciate them. Growing older may be scary, certainly when I haven't secured anything either. From my looks, I thinks these insecurities started when I was in high school and although I've been trying to see myself with a new perspective, some of the comments stuck with me. However, I'm dealing with all that. Financially, I do need a job, I can say this is the start of my life since what I've been doing for the last 5 years was taking care of my mom.
Again, thank you. Send you a big hug 🫂 🤗.
You are beautiful, just believed that you are. I don't know the reason behind why you think of such that way. Be confident of your own beauty, because you are pretty just by looking at your photos. And about financial problems? Just seek some alternatives for it, let's dance with the wind that life throws us.
I'm dancing with the new possibilities of this new phase of my life. I never thought about moving from my home and now I'm in a city I don't know looking for better chances. Thank you, so much. 😘
There you go.. a princess looking for new adventures. Now life will give you what you deserve. Everything's going to be amazing!
More self-confidence! You have a beautiful appearance. I hope that everything will be fine financially.