Nothing will change even if it's a truth
Human life is mysterious, and many unexpected things used to happen with humans. Everything does not happen according to our plan. At the same time, there is some truth that remains hidden from us for a long time. But truth cannot be hidden for forever, and that's a reality, and there are many examples of it.
What if in the morning I reveal the truth that those people I call parents are not my biological parents? What will be my response after figuring out the truth? What will be my emotional state, and how will I adjust to the situation? I think it's hard to imagine, and I'm saying it is quite complicated because a lot of things are interconnected about the topic. I am trying to imagine myself in such a position and trying to give an answer to it.
To be honest, at the beginning, my emotional state will be shaken after hearing the truth. My mind will be blank, and it is very hard for me to think anything in that time. Even if I receive thousands of proofs of the truth, at some corner of my heart will deliver me a message that whatever is happening is not real. Everything may give me the feeling of a dream, and everything will be all right when I wake up from sleep. It can be a glimpse of hope, but I will try to give the message to my mind, but I know my mind won't deny the truth either.
It may take a few days to console myself, and after that I will try to figure out, "Who are my biological parents? Are they alive? If alive, why have they left me? And if dead, then how it happened?". There will be terms of questions in my mind like that, and there will be no way to avoid it because I think I also have the right to know the truth. My next step will be dependent on the answers to those. So I can't exactly say what will happen after that.
Let's talk about my parents, who are not my biological parents. I think they will remain my parents even if I find out the reality. The relationship will be the same because they took care of me well, shared their unconditional love, provided all the facilities I needed, and gave me instructions to be a good human. I think my respect will be increased more for them because I received everything from them even if I was not their child. I think everyone can't do it; it means treating others children as their own. So I think value will be higher compared to my biological parents; it doesn't matter why they leave me. I won't be able to leave them even if I know the truth, and in my entire life I will not hesitate to treat them as my parents. So even if, after knowing such kind of reality, the respect for them will be increased and the relationship will remain the same.
But honestly, I don't want to face such a situation, and I believe that I won't face it in the future. What would be your reaction if you encounter the same situation? You are welcome to share your thoughts also.
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I like where you mentioned that the respect you would give to your adopted parents after realizing the truth will be increased. Imagine receiving care from them right from infant to adulthood...it's a whole lot of sacrifices on their end and the time they decide to reveal ur true identity shouldn't be a big deal but really a time to show them gratitude. I have come to understand that some people adopt children not because they don't have one but a way to offer help to our society. If I find myself In that shoe..I will continue to live with my adopted parents if everything remains the same concerning my relationship with them while making effort to see my biological parents
It's not necessary to know why parents adopt a child the important thing is they give a lot of things. Whatever that child does for the parents, he won't be able to repay. That's why I said respect will be increased more for them and one can only show them gratitude.
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I absolutely with you @intishar. The care from parents is nothing that can be forgotten easily. No matter how much they try, they new parent may never be loved as much as the ones that brought you up
Hmm. Nothing and no one can replace the parents even if they are not the biological parents.
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I don’t think anyone wants to face such a situation… but it is what it if it comes out that way. I also love how you iterated loving your “adopted” parents no matter what. They gave you love and support..
yes, They gave me love and support and I can't repay anything to them for what they have done for me except giving them respect.
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That's a good way of looking at it. Respecting them more because you realize now that they had not many reasons to treat you with so much love since you weren't theirs but they did it anyway. Brilliant!
I know it's very difficult to treat other's children as their own and that's why it says that no one can take the place of parents. They could do it for me and that means they have done more than any normal parents. I won't be able to repay for what they have done for me but I can give them respect as they deserve more than it.
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I also don’t think I want to face such a situation. I also think I'd want to know who my biological parents are. Why did they leave? Are they still alive?
Nobody wants to face such a situation again it's normal to seek the answer to those questions you mentioned here.
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Well scripted.
For me, it will be exactly.
I won't stop me loving the people who have nurtured and cared for me this past four decades of my life.
Of what importance will it be to start looking for the so-called biological parents now?
Life continues even without any parent.
It is just because of curiosity.
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It'll be one of the ugliest thing to face honestly.
I agree with you still that their love should be increased because they even gave you all they had despite knowing that you weren't their child.. its rare
Hmm.
It would not be easy for parents to share their love for other's kid. Only great people can do that.
That's a fact
I will
I will just find it interesting.
I totally agree with you, it's not everyone that treats a child like theirs. Most people don't, the way you wrote on this prompt someone raised by wicked parents won't. I love your piece. Nice one
Hmm. I think their position can't be replaced and there is no way to leave them even if know the truth.
It's my pleasure to know that you liked it.
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That's true.