Huge blow from Failure

Failure is the part of life, and it's inevitable. Nobody can escape from it. It's true everyone wants to be successful in life, but on the way to success, failure comes sometimes. Many of us have the mentality to accept the failure, but sometimes it gives us a hard blow, and it's not so easy to accept.

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Today I talked with one of my best friends who was also disappointed. It seems the day of my best friends was not going so well. Last day one best friend was disappointed for a reason, and the reason he was disappointed was for temporary reasons, and I believe his issues will be solved within one month. Today another best friend was disappointed, and his case is somehow serious. Let me explain his situation.

Today the result of Hon's final year was published, and unfortunately he failed in one course. He was supposed to be officially graduated today, but it didn't happen, and naturally, it was quite disappointing. Now he needs to wait till next year to be graduated. So, for only one course, he will lose another extra year.

Naturally, it takes 4 years to complete graduation. Because of his personal reasons, he dropped one year. Later, because of COVID-19 and the ongoing situation in my country, he lost another 2 years. It's already been 7 years for him, and he is yet to graduate. So right now to be graduated, 8 years are required. Additional four years is not a matter of joke. This 4 years can be capable enough to change the life of someone.

He is the elder son of his family, and naturally, after his father, he needs to take care of financial responsibility. His family was not supportive to him, but because of his spirit, he continued his study rather than going abroad to make money. At the current time he was supposed to be prepared for job exams with his batchmates, but from today his track became different. It may be easy to hear, but next year won't be so easy.

When he called me, he kept saying being graduated is not fated for him. Hearing the thing, I felt very bad for him. I just tried to give him courage and motivate him to be brave for one more time. I talked a lot about it, and he felt better after talking with me.

Although I managed to encourage him today, I doubt it will work all the time. He will be criticized by his family members for sure, and it's such a thing from which I can't protect even if I want to. Although he is to blame for the failure, I feel very sorry for him. I just hope he will fight bravely with his upcoming difficulties. As a friend, I don't want him to give up at the ending moment. He made lots of effort, and I believe she should bear with the upcoming difficult time without losing his original track.