Being Good & A Bit of Fun Wouldn't Hurt
I don't remember much about my primary years in school but mom narrates that I've been a most behaved and quiet gal ever since. When I was a toddler, she would put me in one place and would come back to find me on the same spot sucking my thumb and just looking around. My sister butts in to tell me I was just too fat to move my own body, lol! That made me feel good though knowing that I never really gave my mother a hard time.
Singkham. [I've seen some framed photos of me during those years at the old house but don't know where they're now.]
But yeah, except for my reminiscence of ribbons and medals, hurting my toes and ankle for overdoing a soccer ball-kicking practice with my friend, there isn't much that came into my memory. So I'm pretty sure that I didn't bully anyone and perhaps was not a recipient to any during those years.
My parents didn't really set rules when it comes to our schooling. I think it was an unwritten law to do good and be good. However, writing this made me wish I have have done some mischief back then so there's something to laugh about on remembering. My student life may have been so boring! lol!
High school was a bit different though, still in town with about 1k student population. I was a friend to some naughty gals and we learned to sip alcohol in the last months of our senior year. One night, we had a drinking session at a friend's place where I got drunk, lost my dentures (the first time) and ironic enough, it was announced the following morning that I got the model student award for the whole senior class.
Funny yeah?
Of course my drinking mates were the only ones who knew of our little secret, lol!
A few years ago on a clan reunion, some of my cousins who studied at the same school narrated that teacher this or that often mentioned my name especially when they committed some misconduct. Those teachers must be trying to make an example of me knowing they were my cousins. How dare they? Lol! But it's quite fascinating that they still remembered me after so many years had passed. But through that, I concluded that I've not given them or the school any headache.
I became a wee bit wilder and loose when I was in the university being in the city and away from home. I did experience skipping class, dropping some subjects and what else I have done then. Sleeping in class? Oh yeah, I did that too. Although I still made it to the Dean's Lists occasionally. There I learned that one doesn't have to be all-good. A bit of fun doesn't hurt, or does it?
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Outside or beyond the curriculum of books and such, many things are learned through and in between our own dealings. Thinking about it, although most people tend to remember the negative things about others, being "good" leaves some impressions too. At least that's how I came to realize based on my experiences.
As to how the current generation is doing with their schooling, I have no real idea but I'm confident that they will learn from their own experiences too.
This is my approach to the Blog of the Month pertaining to education, re: future or calling back the past.
Thank you and cheers to the new day!
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I have done stuff in my highschool days too. Whoosh!!!! I still cringe when I remember them. I cringe soooo bad. Hehe. But we're starting on a clean slate here.... ❤️
Ahaha. It's okay, those are probably some of the ways we learn lessons from.
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In case of behaviour I think it's ok but I have doubts about you were a quiet one😅.
It really give us a very good feeling whenever we hear that someone still can remember us from our past means when we are not connected with them in the current time.
Sleeping in class 🤔.. I have never done it.
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Yeah, it's nice to be remembered especially those from the past.
You're a great student, I could tell.
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Yes. It makes me think we can't be good all the time, lol!
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Nung elementary din ako, ang nasa class report card, silent in the class. Wala talaga ako maituturing na best friend. Friends lang talaga. Introvert ako that time.
Nyahaha. Sinulat pa talaga. At least may friends ka pa rin.
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Ahhh, the quiet ones are always the worst, lol. But I love the fact that you were free and wild and miraculously still entered the dean's list on occasion. My high school memories are cringey at best but I use them to tell so many wonderful stories now.
Is it? Darn, you know the secret, haha!
No matter how cringy they are, it's actually nice to have them as our memory hehe.
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It sounds like you were a really wonderful child, teenager, and young adult. No wonder you seem like such a nice person now! Compared to me, you were a little angel growing up. I was always into all kinds of mischief growing up, sometimes not so good as I got older, but nothing criminal that I can recall mind you.
Mother has not mentioned any complains of me growing up so maybe I was, lol! But nah, I did have some mischiefs too outside of school.
Although you did some mischiefs in the past, they aren't that serious and nothing criminal. I think those experiences are part of our learning process.
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Yes, the trouble I got into was all a learning experience for sure. I am all the better for it today.
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I hear you farm girl, we remember only a little of our actual childhood memories. And yet all of it impresses itself upon us to mold us into who we are.
It is obvious focusing on the weakness of others won't yield any good but instead, we must focus our attention on the good people do. And you are also right to say to have them go through it and learn their lessons along the way. Beautiful write up.
There are similar childhood memories when a person listens to and smiling. There was childhood when man lived his life without worrying about anything.
You just come across as the ultimate kind wonderful and goody two shoes lady CJ :)
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I was a Bad student in school days. My Parents always get calls from school and the only reason was My Fight.. hehehe
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LOL, you made me chuckle @ifarmgirl, I see some of myself in you; good girl at times and then a tad naughty.
'Model student award' after a night out on the town must have given you and your friends a good chuckle as well :):)