If I had the ability to…

over 1 year ago

Iғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ ᴀɴʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴀs ɪᴛ ɪs, ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ɪᴛ ʙᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ ʜᴏᴡ ᴄᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ sᴛᴀʀᴛ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴅ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴡᴀʏ?

The world is changing so fast, new values are being integrated into our society as well as some values are gradually becoming obsolete and a lot of people see nothing wrong with whatever is going on, the world is “evolving” they say and everyone seems so comfortable with the way things are going.

If I had my way to change anything in this world the very first thing I would change in this world is how people talk! People are slowly forgetting their manners when having conversations with other people. I hate it when people use jokes to abuse or spew rubbish. “I was just joking”, “It was just a joke, it’s not that deep” Bro it is deep! Deeper than you can ever imagine or think! If you wanna reprimand me for something then be sure to do that outrightly not trying to pass some sort of message in your jokes then afterward you laugh and apologize that it wasn’t that deep.

People need to filter their words, I am not saying you should sugarcoat your words or pretend, Nah, I am only saying that we should be sure to take note of the atmosphere and the mood of the receiver of our words, try to read people’s mood and decipher if they are in the right frame of mind to take in whatever you are about to dish out to them. For example, I just misplaced a very important document that I could get fired for, if I don't come up with it, you jokingly come to remind me of how clumsy I can be at that very instant when I'm already jittery and miserable, this honestly says a whole lot about your level of emotional intelligence. At that point, the least you can do is try to help me find it, or better still let me be at that moment, later, you could come around when I might have already found the said document, you can go ahead and lecture me calmly about how I need to be more orderly.

If I had my way I would start by enlightening people big time on emotional intelligence, so many people lack emotional intelligence, some don’t even know what it means sadly. I guess the normal workshop we’ve had on this topic would always be the theoretical part, no one really gives people real-life examples of how to put our emotional intelligence to work, and those who know about these real-life examples and feel it is not enough for them to get to work. I will have to make the workshop appear in a different dimension, that is, making people understand the adverse effect of not paying attention to other people’s feelings, and since a lot of humans are driven by emotions that would be enough for them to work with.

As humans, we should be at least sensitive, nobody is asking for your money or anything, just a little concern for the other person will go a long way.

I am a very sensitive person, I know they’re times when my being sensitive has landed me in trouble but half the time it has made me make genuine connections with people, it doesn’t take anything for you to take a pause and think of the weight of your words.

So many people are dealing with depression, some inferiority complex and some are currently suicidal, don’t be the reason why someone hates him or herself the more or second guess themselves, or even the person that makes them lose the last string they've been hanging on to, instead be that person that spurs people to do better and to be happy as well.

Another thing I would love to change in this world if I had the ability would be to punish whoever is caught yelling😂😂 Lol I guess you never saw that coming.

It’s so wrong to yell at people, buttress your point in a calm way, you would be heard clearly not you screaming at the top of your voice because you wanna “win” the argument, at the end of the day you silence the other person, you win and you feel better, that’s trash and I see those people as being insecure, you displaying such act of aggressiveness tells a lot about you and it’s obvious that you are so self-absorbed, that you’d want to shove your ideologies down the other person’s throat, that’s big time rubbish!
If given the chance I’ll punish anyone doing that! We can all co-exist peacefully without such dramas.

So basically they are a lot of things that I would love to change if given the opportunity but these two I carefully highlighted tops the chart for me.

Lol, this post just feels more like a rant the more I read it😂😂

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