PEOPLE - KEEPING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP

People? Yes! They are everywhere around you and you have little or no choice but to accommodate them no matter the kind of personalities they have except of course you don't want to care. No matter how much you try to live without people, they are just always going to come around somehow. I know there are some persons who are so blessed with people around them but they always wish they weren't and not until those people are all gone, they never really get to appreciate them.

I'm kind of a social butterfly as someone once said in her post because I so much enjoy having people around me most of the time. But outside the fact that I love having people around, I've still gotten to realize that I have a big problem keeping the right behavior for making friends. For starters, I have a big problem with my temper and sometimes it gets the most of me that I just end up talking to people in ways that I later regret.

Sometimes, when I relate with some persons it's as if they have it all figured out how to interact with people thatand if I want to be sincere it is admirable. Well, I've been privileged to communicate with different personalities and that has been quite helpful in helping my relationship with humans so far. Now I'm not much of that Hope that easily losses her temper, now I'm more of that Hope that just want to seek for ways to just be happy and also make those around her happy as well.

For me, having people around me is one of the best gifts God has given to me and I believe that what ever these people end up being towards me is all my responsibility and having that in mind has given me more reasons to work better on myself. I love people so I always want to understand them and maybe be a source of hope to them as I'm named! Some people go to school to learn how to do that in a professional level and I think it would be nice if I did too because I have quite a lot of people around me and to be honest, I don't want to lose any of them.

And the only way I can't lose any of them is if I give them a reason to always stick around. To some of them, they might think that I'm the one losing by having them around me but that is not true at all. I believe that every single person I've gotten to know or interact with are all there for a purpose and I'm super grateful and blessed to have all of them. Anyways, it's not a new thing that people come and people go but I'm hoping that the ones that will go won't go with a wrong impression of me but no one can guarantee that.

I know in this life we have statuses and different levels of humans as we are made to understand but then that shouldn't stop you or myself from always appreciating the people we are blessed with, whether rich or poor, whether good or bad. Everyone of these people are there for a purpose and mostly for our own good but that still depends on who we choose to be to all of these people that we are surrounded with. Whether it be a stranger you bought a popcorn from by the road side or the closest relation, we all owe these people the best of us.

We definitely have our misunderstandings but we shouldn't let those misunderstandings stand in the way of us being more thoughtful and appreciative towards those that we have around us. You don't always have to focus on the big things all the time to make people happy, those little things add up even more than we can think. Learn to relate with people the way you want to be related with. It's kind of absurd to always want things from people that even when you have them you can't give to them.

"People are who they are to us because of who we are to them"- by Hopestylist. We might want to think that our life is ours' and choose to do whatever we want with it but it's only matter of time before we realize how wrong we are to think that.