Child Discipline Is Not Outdated

Hello hive parents and awaiting parents, hope you are doing well in your region. This is raining season let's do our best to cover the children and ourselves properly to avoid being affected negatively by the weather.

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The topic I will be speaking on today is Discipline. The subject of Discipline is gradually becoming a thing of the past, but this is the time we need to consciously the culture in our children. There are lots of moral decadence in the society because some parents neglected their responsibility when it comes to inculcating the right attitude first hand to their children, now they have left discipline for the school to do and some parents go as far as giving query to the school when they feel their wards where over disciplined in the school.

Discipline is the act of instilling the right attitude into the children without minding if they feel well with the act. This is the closest definition I can lay my hands on that best discribe the information I want to put across. Most time discipline is not an easy thing to be done to the one that is being Disciplined and the one giving the discipline but it just have to be given. When giving discipline to the children what is mostly considered is not the immediate but the future. When we consider the present pain as parents and fail to instile thw correct attitude we will be in regret tomorrow.

As parents, it is best to discipline our children out of love. It is not difficult for children to feel that we hate them. I remember one day my son's friend came visiting and you know boys, they where busy jumping up and down with this loud voice, I was not feeling too okay that day so i kept telling them to reduce the noise and play gentlely not too long ago when I finished talking with them my son's friend told him that his mother is wicked. That gave me a deep shock. A boy of less than 4 years already knows what wicked is. Maybe to him I was so hash and he didn't like it. So in giving discipline let's show them that love and care.

Also, it is good for the children to see us as their best friend, then when we correct them they will not feel as if it's a stranger that is talking with them. In this part of the world we use Cain a times when it comes to discipline. Though it is important that we don't make it a habit or else they become so use to it and take it for a ride. There are different ways of punishing a child. Let them not just be use to a particular pattern of punishment.

As parents we should be mindful of the kind of words we use on our children no matter how angree we are, words are powerful so it is important to be careful with the kind of words we use on our children.

As I come to a conclusion, give your children the kind of training that you will wish they grow with as when they grow they will not go against such training. Our society we be a lovely place to be if parents do their homework well.

My love to you all and do have a blessed week ahead