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Recently, I met such a gentleman during a trip. His father has properties and farms worth lakhs. There are six sons, all of them live separately, only the youngest son lives with his father. The father spends all the income of his property only on his one son, he has absolutely no regard for the needs of the other sons. The situation is that other sons are asking for loans from people to meet their basic needs and even though the father has millions of properties, they do not have the right to ask for a fraction of it. It is promoting a dangerous mentality. If the father asserts his full right to the children's earnings by reciting the hadith "Ant wa Malik Labik" while scholars know that in this hadith the father is given the right to dispose of all the children's property, he is entitled to the son's total. Ownership of the property has not been given. So, in the same way, if the father has wealth and capital and the children are in need, the children also have the right to this wealth in all respects, according to Sharia and morality, and if the father is blessing one son well and depriving other children. So this is the clear cruelty and injustice about which the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) told Hazrat Basheer (RA) when he wanted to give a garden to one of his sons Numan (RA) and the Prophet (PBUH) said: He wanted to make Allah (peace be upon him) a witness.

In some houses, it is also observed that in relationships and domestic problems, things get worse due to the parents' stubbornness. For his daughter, the things that are strongly disliked in her in-laws are kept with her own daughter-in-law.

Parents should understand that when children grow up, they should be given the freedom to make many decisions, their own likes and dislikes should also be considered in the major issues of their life. Guide the wrong and not impose your decisions on them. Due to stubbornness and selfishness, the bonds of the relationship begin to weaken and one day they break apart.

Scholars and reformers are requested to keep an eye on both attitudes of the society when discussing rights, and remind parents of their duties when discussing children's intemperance. If you draw the attention of the society towards the tears of the forced parents, try to solve the problems of the oppressed children as well. Allah bless you

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