ASKING FOR ENGAGEMENT PHOTOS

It is unreasonable and inappropriate to ask for a photo of a girl before the engagement (message of marriage) is settled.

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In our society, the women of the house (mothers, sisters, etc.) are generally responsible for choosing a girl. The doors are closed, but if the boy or girl insists on seeing their fiancee, or stipulates that they will settle the relationship only after seeing their future or future fiancee, then this is their Shari'a right, which is not prohibited by guardians. You can, still this does not happen in our society, which is a very desirable move, but somewhere it is heard that the engagement talks have not even been completed and the demand to ask for the girl's photo and show her photo has started. This process is unacceptable from the Shariah point of view and also unreasonable from the human point of view, there is a risk of playing with the girl's virginity in this process, it can be seen by other people, there is also a risk of misuse of photos, as well as in photos and pictures. There is also the possibility of deception and deception.

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The religious scholars have described some conditions for seeing the fiancee which are as follows:

1- A boy will see his future fiancee only when he intends to consummate the engagement with her, not just as an option.

2- The boy or the boys should be satisfied that the girl will settle the relationship with him, but if they have a strong belief that the girl will refuse, then it is not permissible for the boy to see the girl.

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3- The purpose of seeing a girl is to get information and satisfaction, not for pleasure and enjoyment.

4- When looking at a girl, there should be neither solitude nor lust.

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