I'm Done!!! My Mental health Matters.

When you notice that your happiness, self-esteem and peace of mind is threaten by someone or an environment the best thing is to "Quit" or leave such environment.

A random picture from my gallery that better explain how I had it up to my neck.....it almost choked me🤣🤣

Being in an environment where you are not accept can be so toxic, it will prevent You from growing and appreciating yourself. It can even make one to fall into depression. You see that Saying that go where you are accepted and not where you are tolerated, it's so applicable in all face of life like relationship, job and business.

I was employed to work as a store keeper for Mr A( not his real name) I started working August and I felt excited because I have been job hunting for a long time.
The first day I resume working I cleaned the whole space I was doing it with joy and wasn't expecting a well-done because I felt I was doing my job.

But my effort was never good enough for Mr A he was so ungrateful and inconsiderate......I can actually put up with that at least for a while as long as my salary is not affected.

Hey! I lied it was beyond being ungrateful and inconsiderate he was also temperamental and abusive.
He use demeaning and abusive words on his workers.

One time we had a client and I had to help source some file from his office,while I was searching for it he started raining insulting on me like saying I have eyes but can't use it and the client was so cold looking at him....wooooooo😡😤😤😤
I was so infurated that I walk out of the office I didn't look for the file, I just walked out.....the embarrassment was just too much.

After he was done with the client I walked up to him to express myself I told him how improper he uses his speech and how I feel and that was it. I Quit.

Yes!!!!I sacked myself after collecting my one month salary I didn't resume the next day after the incident and that was the end.

Another random picture that explains how happy I was after quitting.

I choose my happiness,my self-esteem and peace of mind over his money.
Working there was really drilling my energy, I feel so sad and reluctant going to work that so unlike me.

The interesting part of this story is that after some time, let's say a month plus I met with Mr A at the mall and he greeted me with a smile and handshake he even asked about my well being😳😳that was so unlike him I thought.

So I called one of my colleagues to ask what going on and he said ever since I did what I did, our boss has changed,he speak and treat them with respect and that sometimes he still insult but not has frequent as it was before..... that's his business I said to my self.

So if quiting that relationship, job, or leaving that environment will give you peace of mind, please do it your mental health matters a lot.