LOH CONTEST #110: Some of my 2022 experiences
This year started out great for me, I could feel it right from the beginning it was going to be a good year for me, not without its challenges though, from trying to be strong emmotionally due to the rollercoasters of marriage issues, and improving on my skills as a fashion designer, also, thankfully, I found hive too.
Thanks to the Ladies OF hive community for this prompt given which I will be choosing the secon which states:
As we're approaching the end of the year, let's take a moment to reflect on what we've achieved and learned in 2022. We look forward to hearing about your experience!
image is mine: me and hubby
Let me start with my marriage issue, those of us that have been married for a while especially from 5 years upward will know how sometimes we begin to experience some challenges like the communication dwindling, more stress due to more responsibilities to take care of, also the spark at the beginning reduces almost fading away which led to many disagreement, and I became unhappy about the whole situation, beginning this year, one of my goals was to make a difference and bring the spark on, gradually, with this, I learnt to be more patient, show more love also assist my hubby more the best way I can, I won't say I've achieved being where I want us to be yet, but there has been a significant difference from the way the year started out, the disagreement stoped, I took some advice from the marriage counsellor and so far, it has been helping, there's a little more communication and understanding too, hopefully the spark returns better, so I will be making this on of my achievement. I also learnt to be the change I want to see, and this really helped a lot in bringing the necessary improvements I wanted, not a easy thing to do, but it was really worth it.
image is mine: me
Skills Upgrade
I was able to achieve this goal of improving in my skill as a fashion designer by paying for online upgrade classes also did a lot of practices, in return, I had more happy and satisfied client, this is also one of my happy achievement, the learning never stops though. I keep on doing my best and have received a lot of good connection through this aspect of my life.
Savings
I began this year roughly without almost any savings, I felt bad, working tiredlessly but not being able to save due to high cost of things in the country and a lot of expenses to sort out, rents, fees, feedong etc having a little baby didn't make it any easier, you know how expensive having a baby can get, I'm glad I took a bold step around the middle of this year to save up a little something out of every income I make, I'm happy to say I actually did though it has not accumulated to the figure I wish yet, but I still count it as an achievement this year, seeing it rising daily, when it gets to the figure I'm aspiring, I will be getting myself some new sewing machines and tools to help make my work easier and faster too, hopefully before the year runs out and adding my earnings on hive should help out a lot too. Which leads me to my next achievement.
Discovered Crypto
Finally, I got to know about the crypto this year, you might be wondering where have been all this while, maybe under the rocks, I don't know, haha just joking, even though there is still a lot to take in, starting with the Gfam platform which I earned my first crypto from, also joining Hive, I'm happy I'm already on track, after becoming active on hive about 3 months back, all thanks to the @newbies Initiative program, for accepting my application to be a part of the beneficiaries, we were tutored intensively about the hive blockchain, the program helped with my improvement on hive, knowing more about the importance of engagement and a while lot if other interesting topics, the initiative also made me understand my way around the blockchain, so my goal on getting better on hive like I posted some few months back in this community ladies of hive is being achieved.
That's all I can think of now, hope you enjoyed my write up?
Thank you for reading❤❤
That was amazing, well I haven't seen yet any marriage without an issue but you become a genius when you are been intelligent enough to settle issues amicably.
If I should tell you my experience, you will advice me to go publish a book on it but lastly everything is fine.
I am amazed of your determination, upgrading your skills and savings. It's one of the best thing a woman needs.
That I have come to learn as the journey goes, I 100% believe you about publishing a book, I know how difficult it can be at times, I'm glad everything is fine now.
It sure is, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful comment.
Hehe, you're also a designer like me, it seems we share so many things in common.
Glad you could achieve a lot this year.
Yes I am O,
Thank you sis, how is the season work going by the way?
My dear, hectic as usual but we will pull thru like we always do.
Sure we are🙂
Yay! 🤗
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You really achieve a lot this year, though it has not come up to your expectations but believe before the end of December, you will laugh best.
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For real babe it’s all thanks to the newbie initiative because it help keep us on track and we have all been doing great.
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Every relationship goes through phases. That is normal, and how the time goes by, maybe you don't see the spark, but it is because the love maybe transformed into a different stage. The spark and butterflies in the stomach will not last forever, but the relationship (or marriage) steps into a different phase, love but in another form. And it is constantly changing, it is not static :) Communication is very important and patience :)
Yes, I discovered that with time, the love is definitely still there but in another stage/phase just as you have said, communication and understanding each other has been helping so far.
Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it.
You have a lot of improvements that you experienced during 2022 and that's amazing, because we all have to improve day by day for there to be changes in our lives. 😁👍
Improvement is the key,
Thanks for stopping by.
Marriage is a beautiful experience that brings two people together in a lifelong commitment of love, understanding and support. Also, it's no secret that married life comes with its fair share of disagreement between both partners. However, I believe that once you both understanding the underlying issues behind such disagreements is essential for creating a healthy relationship and resolving any issues that arise in the future 🙂
Congrats on your skill improvement as well. :)
I totally agree with you, understanding each other the sure way to tackle disagreement and guide us further subsequently.
Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate.