Beyond The Filter

As the world keeps evolving and the internet taking the present generation like wildfire, it is now a norm for most of us both young and old to want to tap from the amazing opportunities the internet has to offer, one of which is being an influencer, unlike those days where you either have to come from a wealthy background or work so hard and consistently for years before becoming a household name/celebrity. It is common these days for anyone with a smartphone and smart or crazy ideas that attract attention to become one, especially since it's one of the highest paying jobs one can do and also have fun while doing it, as long as you can bear the burden that tags along.

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A friend of mine was lucky to quickly climb up the ladder as a top model and influencer after winning a beauty queen competition, but from my chats with her, though she may look glamourous on the outside from the pictures and videos she shares online, but on the inside, she isn't so happy as her life has not been hers any longer, from the little she explained to me, she now seems like a puppet that must always dance to the rule of the showbiz game, all for more likes, follows and of course money.

I wouldn't consider myself as someone who would happily love to take on an influencing role because to be frank, I'm not really the camera-ready kind of person, ready to update my followers with what they would obviously like to know or not which is one responsibility influencers can't do without, but that doesn't mean I have to give up on the whole influencing, thing as my current job as a fashion designer even demands that I become one, whether I lile it or not,

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so yea, since anything fashion is what I am passionate about, if I am to go into full time influencing, then fashion it is, it doen't necessarily mean I have to show myself as I love my privacy and would"t want to be in the radar of the public at all time, I'm too delicate for that celebrity lifestyle, that seems too perfect online, as we all know life can not be so perfect, so trying to live up to people's expectation means I'll be putting much pressure on myself at all time, so I'll definitely pass on that.

The reason why I respect those in such positions, especially the ones positively influencing the people, not the other way round, as we know that the negative ones are much more the good ones, they capitalize on their numerous followers to add more pain to the society, as they are all about the money and not the consequences of their action, so if given the choice of being a social media influencer, I'll take it up, as I stated before, I would still love to be anonymous while being a part of those that contribute positively to the society, because I know we need more of this positivity to overwhelm the bad ones saturated everywhere demoralizing our generation and causing a looming doom to the future generation.

Image 1, 2 is mine.

Thank you for reading.❤❤



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I feel bad for your friend.
Best wishes to her.

What you do is really amazing dear.
Keep up with the good work.

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Hmm, it's what our system has reduce some of us to.

Thank you🙏

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hmm. Everyone don't want to be social influencers and that's natural and the talent of each person is also different.

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Well, the reality is no profession is easy. I guess as a person who is willing to choose social media influencer as a profession, such a person needs to control how it affects their personal life. Moreover being a social media influencer has a lot of dimensions.

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Exactly, no profession is easy, I guess looking at the positive contribution is what would make it worth it.

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camera shy.
I too, i am not a camera person. hardly take pictures, talk more of being an influencer

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I believe as an influencer, you decides your own niche. Have seen people who don't post about their private life's rather they brand their products in a way that exposes them to more contracts.

I feel bad for your friend, or probably she signed an endorsement deal with the modelling company that's why she probably don't have her personal life if not as a model you chose to tell the public what you feel they should know about you and isn't personal but nevertheless wish her best of luck.

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