It's not just you

When people complain about me huddling my struggles, and challenges to myself and not wanting to tell anybody, I laugh at them, even though I understand the point they are coming from, but don't blame me because, over the years, I have learned, think and feel that everyone is going through tough times, even though sometimes people don’t share their tough moments but mostly you don’t hear their struggles but everyone is going through shit.

So, because they are all smiling, all playful, all happy, and not carrying a sad face, and crying out loud or to someone doesn't mean that they aren't going through their tough moments and struggles, even if we all may not be going through dame shit, same tough times, same struggles and most times we may not be going through the same time, it doesn't mean that it is rosy for them and thorns for just you.

So, when things happen, don’t always feel like it’s just you, and don't always feel like you are the only one walking through that path, you are not the only one, and you are not going to be the only one.

Truth be told to ourselves, God never promised us a life free of troubles, he only promised to be there every step of the way, through our tough times, struggles, challenges, and the rest of them. So, in your moments of struggle, in your confusion, in your pain, never feel like it's just you, you have God walking with you every step of the way.

All you need to do is to just keep holding on, and keep believing that it is not just you on that route. I know it isn't easy, it won’t be easy in such a moment of distress to keep believing in God's promises, but God never fails, he will come through at the end and His promises will make sense when the dust settles.

I hope this encourages your heart and keeps your heart steady that you are not alone, it's not just you on that journey, God is with you.