Don't put it on someone else

A young man wrote a story about how he helped a woman who came to him begging for money to help herself and her family, although he wasn't buoyant enough to help as he would have helped he sent some money to her account stating that, that was the last money he had and hopes to help in subsequent time when he has enough money.

Instead of showing appreciation, the woman condemned him for sending such an amount of money to her and I ask myself, who gave her such entitlement over some else money? Why put it on someone else when you could do yourself good by going out and fending for yourself since you do not like the kind of help given to you by someone else? You were unable to achieve what you had planned to achieve this year, don't put it on someone else.

If you couldn't get the finances to do the needed project you wrote down, to put it on someone else, you couldn't get the job you were interviewed for, don't put it on someone else. Take a deep breath, calm your nerves, go back to your drawing book, take your pen, and start drawing again, it doesn't matter how long it will take to start afresh, don't put it on someone else.

Many people are becoming too entitled about some things that aren't even theirs but because they know someone who knows someone, they feel it is their right, but nobody owes you anything, you owe yourself the right to do eight by yourself.

Don't put your failure on someone else, don't put your predicament on someone else, and don't blame anyone for your stunt growth, everyone is striving to do good by themselves and for themselves, so don't sit down, folding your hands expecting someone to come and carry your load for you.

The place of kindness, doing good to others can not be eradicated but this should come in when you are doing something. Don't put it on someone else.