Cheating: Can you forgive a cheating partner and What really is cheating
We live in a world where everyone tries to avoid the topic "Cheating" Most relationship don't have meaning again because both the man and the woman cheat on each other and they find it entertaining or they see nothing wrong with it.
Discovering that your partner is cheating on you can be incredibly painful and challenging, it can even break some people mentally. It can shake the foundation of trust and create a sense of betrayal that is difficult to over come. Cheating refer to the act of unfaithfulness or dishonestly in a romantic relationship or committed relationship.
In todays video, we would be discussing two important topic that deals with cheating and they are
- Can you forgive a cheating partner
- What do you understand by the word "CHEATING"
In some relationship, once the man is caught cheating, sometimes the woman can find it in her heart to forgive him even when they are not married and same goes for the man but the percentage in which the woman might forgive the man is higher than that of the man. Most men never forgive cheating according to studies.
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What do you understand by the word Cheating. Currently, different meaning have been given to the term "Cheating" what can be cheating to Mr A might not be cheating to Mr B and can be consider a normal thing to Mr C so how do we define cheating. The fact remains, we all know whats wrong and whats right as human. If majority consider something to be wrong then it is wrong but that doesnt mean the majority are alwas right.
In the video, I made a scenerio of a couple whose lady wouldn't let him hug another lady because she consider that as cheating.
Anyways, watch the video and ask your question in the comment section, if you have additional contribution, please add it. I'm sure there are many people that will be willing to learn from you.
Thanks for watching
▶️ 3Speak
Nope I can never I’ve tried but nahhhhh
Still can’t
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Can we say you don’t love her or him that much the way you claim you did ?
Cheating is a conscious act
Very true
Very very true
The lady on the stage with Omah Lay
Can we consider that cheating
Broad day cheating
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I love how you define it
Nice nice! So you can seat in the front of a camera and be this fluent! Wow, it was just interesting to watch.
As for the topic of discussion, the definition of cheating will vary from one person to another. But then, in a broad Sense cheating is trying to play smart on another person and I think that's why having sort of a manual that guides your relationship matters so we can easily know when the next person is trying to play smart on another.
And with that in mind, it's obvious that everyone's manual might be different based on what they think works for them.
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful piece with us 🥰💯.
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Hmm
Beautiful comment
I was gonna throw in a question but your comment seems to answer it
But I’ll ask anyways
The lady on stage with Omah Lay, can that be consider cheating ?
My opinion; it was not cheating, but it was filled with gross disrespect.
Also there was this attitude she exhibited as though she was trying her best to get omah lay, so in other words she is mentally with him and have left the other guy.
Yeah, I thought about this too.
If Omah lay gave her the option of spending time with him, she would take it.
Like you said, it was disrespectful for her to display such art in front of her boyfriend
Thank you for the compliment 🥰.
Well, as for your question, I don't even know who the lady with Omah Lay is 🤣
Smiles. Well, try searching for the video
I don't really like researching on celebs 😅 you can just tell me what happened if you can
Ahhhh
This one can’t be said o
It’s a dance on the stage sha
You have to watch to understand 😅😅😅
Okay, I will let this one pass then or you can send me the link here
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Same to you 🥰
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In your account you have put a description that you are like an alien and your thoughts are similarly weird like an alien.
Like, A woman considers it cheating with her man to value or hug another woman. Women are not so small hearted if they trust someone more than themselves if they make someone their partner.
Heheheh😂😂
Check my description, I think it’s there
Hmmm
So once the trust is built, a man should do all things possible not to break the trust. But what if the does something he consider not cheating but to the woman it is cheating
What should he do ?
Well, it depends on him, the lady and the action in question.
It's good for a man to consider his actions and how they affect his woman but it is also important for him to maintain his masculine frame and not accept all her demands. So if you take a critical inward look and what your woman complains of is harmless, you just have to reassure her and remain open and accessible, but if it's not proper then you have to make amends.
Words
You said something amazing here and anyone who reads this will definitely learn from this
Truly, if the guy sees he disrespects her, then amends should be made and like you said he shouldn’t let the lady controls all his action
Interesting
How do you know so much about cheating?
Just tell us the truth sir😂
The last question is rhetorical the answer is obvious
Why would I even forgive my partner for cheating on me ?
First of all that’s total disrespect
He should just go and be with the person
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Abena
Lemme. I know so much because practice make perfect 🌚🌚
Just kidding o. I read many books 😂😂
The last question can be answered tho. Some people forgive their partner and things ended up well, what if it’s was a mistake and what do you consider cheating at first.
Also, if you leave that fast, can it be considered that you didn’t love him that much at first ?
If he loved me why did he cheat?
Mistake happens you know😇😇
Also, is it only sexual affair outside the relationship that you see as cheating . ?
Every cheating is cheating
Don’t justify it
I’m not and I support you 💯💯
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I watched a clip last night on YouTube, the wife would all the time pray and denied her husband of meals and even sex. Then this man started eating food prepared by his secretary at work, the wife got angry and said he was cheating on her.
I would say, in that context, it isn't cheating. Just like what you said, a lady would conclude on cheating just because her boyfriend or man hugs or hold hands with another lady, if their relationship has been defined right from time and there is trust, no one would think of cheating just by mere hugging or holding hands with the opposite gender.
It only becomes cheating when one is found having an affairs with the other person when he or she is in a relationship already and that could depend on how the relationship has been with them. For some, they cheat because their partners do not satisfy them, but does that even give an excuse to cheat? It's all about communication here.
In all, cheating is bad and one shouldn't be found engaging in that once you love your partner.
Wisdom
I love how you explain the context of cheating
Well, eating another lady food when you don’t give him food, I’m sure some ladies here will still consider that as cheating.
Like you said, when they came together at first and they communicate on what they like and don’t, the assumption of cheating won’t be in place.
Exactly, It is all a matter of understanding your partner when it comes to being around the opposite gender.
Hello!, nice to greet you! It is very entertaining the topic you share today, and it seems to be a never ending debate. I always go for forgiveness in any reality, but at the same time a situation like this hasn't happened to me, at least not in a real relationship. Although nothing is everlasting, I faithfully believe that it all boils down to finding the right person to spend the rest of your life with, and then working very hard on the relationship... Good video brother! ✌️
Thank you so much for your comment. This is the comment I have been looking for.
Lady said “the first time I catch him cheating or I see a sign of cheating then I’m leaving him”
I guess you didn’t love him to begin with was what I told her.
Some people cheat at first and never went back to it after forgiveness and discussing with their partner.
Some never even ask question to why such a thing happen the first time so they can avoid it the second time but instead they give up on the relationship and end things.
Forgiveness is important but we should also know when to forgive
Cheating in a relationship simply means having a sexual affair with someone else other than your chosen partner or spouse.
So if a guy hugs a lady friend, it isn't considered cheating. I think that guys girlfriend has insecurity issues which needs to be dealt with pronto before marriage.
I believe in a relationship, boundaries need to be set in place to ensure that complaints don't come up later. What I mean is if a guy is in a committed relationship, he needs to respect his chosen partner by limiting his interactions with the opposite gender.... the same goes for the female partner. I believe doing so would show respect for each other and also serve as a warning sign to others who might have interest in being in a relationship with your partner.
Let me use you @fashtioluwa for example, you are a fine guy and I'm certain that you get hints from ladies who want to be in your life. If you go ahead to accommodate such ladies in the name of "being friends", you give them hope that they can displace your partner to be with you but setting clear boundaries would make them understand that this guy is not for me.
So as a guy or lady in a committed relationship, be committed to your partner. Let there be no Lacuna in the relationship where doubt can dwell. Value the person you chose and never ever compare your partner with another's partner or feel regret that you did not choose so so and so instead. If ever you feel like the relationship cannot move forward due to certain differences, then it's better going separate ways.
Thank you
Whaoooo. I don’t know what to say because this is a lecture on it own and well explained so others can understand.
Thanks for this great comment
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First we must remember that to eer is human and to forgive is divine, however, forgiveness is a personal decision and it depends on the individual and the circumstances surrounding the cheating. Some people might choose to forgive their partner and work on rebuilding the trust and relationship, unlike @abenad who will proudly and comfortable walk away🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 others might choose to end the relationship and move on.It is important to note that forgiveness does not mean forgetting or condoning the act of cheating. It means letting go of the anger and resentment towards the partner and choosing to move forward in a positive direction.Now, let's talk about what we understand by the word "CHEATING". Cheating can take different forms in a relationship, it could be emotional cheating, physical cheating, or even financial cheating. Emotional cheating involves forming a deep emotional connection with someone outside the relationship, while physical cheating involves engaging in sexual activities with someone outside the relationship. Financial cheating involves hiding financial transactions or spending money without the knowledge of the partner.Cheating is a breach of trust and it can have a devastating effect on a relationship. Partners need to communicate openly and honestly about their expectations and boundaries in the relationship to avoid any form of cheating.
The lady with Omah Lay for some people it is cheating and to some it's cruise.
🤣🤣🤣I’ll fly away
Honestly. I’m so impressed with this comment. It can be made into a post if one look at it properly.
You’re blessed with wisdom and I’m glad you took your time to type this. Thank you sir. I’m sure many people will read this and learn from it.
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In my opinion, cheating in a relationship means having sexual intercourse with another lady who's not your girlfriend or wife, as for your question can we forgive our partner if he cheats then to me no, for example, if you spouse cheats on you and you forgive him or she then doesn't think he or she won't repeat it because they will be like my girlfriend or boyfriend will forgive me after all I once did it and they forgive me. And I still don't get it why will you be in a relationship and yet you will still be cheating on your spouse, it's crazy.
Hmmm
@Miztajovial made me to understand that there are various from of cheating and it doesn’t have to be sexually alone
But if you believe cheating only involves sex
Then I agree with you
We are in the world of perspective and individuality of view @fashtioluwa
Always talking like a professor
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i guess cheating has different meaning per individual. whatever your definition of cheating is, you have to discuss this with your partner. discuss what you consider cheating and which is not. when that happens to me, i will end the relationship and i expect the same treatment if ever i commit the same. i can forgive but i find it hard to forget and that will hinder the relationship.
anyways, nice topic. btw, engaging in sex with a paid worker is considered not cheating by most japanese?
Yeah you’re right
Conversation at the very beginning of the relationship matters a lot so they can both understand each other
And for that part about the Japanese
Are you serious about it?🤯🤯
yes, it is true in japan. most of them (women included) thinks that paid sex is not cheating.
Whaoo
I’m just learning this
If someone has cheated that means they never loved you that’s my way of thinking and there’s no forgiveness for that. Because he’s not naive or kid who did a mistake. It’s not a mistake and it was done with a purpose.
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Hmmm 🤔
Very interesting. You said it can’t be a mistake, but mistake happens sometime
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