Is This Why You Are Single?: A must watch for all youngsters.
Love can be a tricky thing, and many people misunderstand it. Why are you single? It can be a very annoying question to ask a lady or guy who has decided to remain single. In this video, I will be explaining the reasons why some people remain single. Some of them are forced to make that choice, while others make it based on what they see.
Some of these choices are justified; if you look at the rate at which young relationships have been at this present age, it is enough to say, "I don't want to be in a relationship."
Many people have suffered from relationships; some people find themselves in toxic relationships, while others see things that happen in marriage and decide to never even give it a try or think about it again.
Back in those days, people got married, and they said this vow, "For better and for worse." They truly meant it, and the divorce rate back then was so low, but compared to the 21st century, where people rush into marriage and when there is a little inconvenience, they rush to their lawyer and say, "Fill a divorce for me,"
There are some people who look up to a married couple; they want to live a life like theirs, but when the cat is let out of the bag, they see some ugly sides. Now, it is the way the couples handle their affair that's going to make people want to remain in love or give up on it.
This video explains many things that can make people decide to remain single for the rest of their lives.
There is nothing bad about remaining single; it's cool if you want to remain single; it's a personal choice that I believe everyone should respect. If you see a person who has made the choice to remain single., there is a reason for that person to be single: either you ask them or stay off their business. Thanks for reading and watching.
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Fash, I know this is not your room. Whose room is that?😂😂
Are you sure you’re not married?
I believe that everyone views love the same way he or she has been shown love growing up. This also balls down to how you love yourself because people will treat you how you treat yourself.
Hehehe
It’s also my room but my room at my parents. I’m thinking of renovating it but I won’t be staying there so I’m wondering if I should or not.
I’m not married o🌚🌚
Very true. The way we see love is how we saw it when growing up. It always leave an impact on our love life. Well, I love ….🤭🤭
Rich man things. Only you, two rooms.😂
Ah well…
That’s very true. But we can also do better and change the narrative if we didn’t we didn’t see love to be beautiful thing growing up.
Very true too
We choose and decided what we want and how we see it
Exactly!
O.O im single thanks lol. brave doing video tho . single is a choice and its not too bad lol
By May, I want you to introduce your girlfriend to me. I won’t repeat this ok 😂😂
o.o thats too fast man lol itd be a fake gf
😂😂😂
Ok, what month should we fix it then
maybe next two years
🤣🤣🤣
its now more focus on making money O.O unless that girl will pay for me ;3
😂😂
You always know how to have your way with words
o.o its true bro. girls expensive u have to think about that o.o they cry for luxury bag what will u do jk jk
Fash the love doctor 😂. A lot of us have chosen to be single for many reasons and it’s not always bad.
I know, but I know you’re not single
So why are you saying
“Many of us”
Who are the us ehnnn🤣🤣🤣
You this man
some just haven't met the one. if ever you do, will you choose to marry?
Yeah, I would.
Like you said, some people haven’t found that person that would change their life and the way they think. I hope we meet such person some day.
This life is too short to live life all alone
Fash My bro 🫂🫂 I agree with there is nothing bad in being single. Many of us are single and enjoying their life.
Yeah
There is nothing bad in it
Everyone have their reason to their choice
Yup!! Single and happy ☺️☺️
Hehehe
Ok
I’m single and dating 😅😅😅
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I like your point of view,it's not a bad idea to remain single. You can still live your happy life even though you are single. It's all about choice
It’s about choice
Some people find it happy to be single. While some people haven’t just found the person they are looking for which is why they are single
The longer you remain single, the more you love it
yeah this is definitely true
Love is beautiful bro and everyone have different perspectives about it so I don't try to make people see things from my angle.
Being single isn't a problem and anyone has the right to what kind of relationship they want. As long as being single make someone happy then I don't have any issue about.
I love how you said
Everyone have different perspectives to what they call love.
Thanks for your contribution sir
While the choice is yours to remain single, the truth still stands that you should be single for the right reasons and not out of fear or disappointment.
That a plane crashed yesterday does not stop people from still traveling by air.
Most people are single because they don't want to be responsible or accountable. They want to continue in their gallivanting without bothering about the consequences.
Singlehood is not a single and neither does it mean that something is wrong with you. This period should be a phase of planning and conquering your goals or aspirations. This is the stage where you prepare yourself for a married life. You read books on marriage and work on any negative character that might spell doom later in marriage.
This phase of life should also be when you set your priorities right and begin to carefully seek out that one partner that can run with your vision in marriage because that is what marriage is... sacrificing for the other.
It baffles me a lot when I see you next girls only limiting themselves to marriage. They have no future ambition except to get married, forgetting that life goes on even after marriage.
We singles need to be careful to avoid bastardaizing our destinies over little things. Marriage is a big deal, it's not a school for enduring pain but it teaches endurance and patience in the long run. You cannot prepare in marriage, you prepare before you get married.
Marriage is the coming together of two complete individuals to carry out the plan of God and destiny together. Ask yourself..
When you find the answers to this, then you are ready to exit the single phase but until you do.... please remain single and heal.
It is not a crime to be single
Thank you
Like I saw
You always comment like a professor
You sure you’re not a professor?
I believe this comment is self explanatory and I have learned from it
Thanks for the awesome comment
😂😂😂 I'm an educator so it shows.
Thanks bro
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Totally agree. Most people chose to remain single because of the fear of being hurt over and over again.. While others are based on background.
Imagining growing up in an environment where your parents always fight and then you hewr your mom cries all night lamenting why she's still in that marriage because of you her child and your siblings (if there's any).
Love indeed is a tough ride and so allot are quite scared of falling into it in other not to allow history repeat in there lives
It’s just like I said
This factors have made some people choose to remain single.
@Beckyroyal said something, “if you’re going to remain single, make sure you’re doing it for the right reason”
That's a true word💯
Yes oo
Being single is by choice and those who choose to remain single have their reasons. Most of them have been shown the other side of love through their toxic relationships of their parents whereby they are scared of going into one because they feel they would end up becoming like their parents. While to others, they have experienced a lot of toxic relationships and even seen others being heartbroken and they conclude they would remain single and enjoy their lives than being in a relationship that won't bring them happiness and peace.
That was a lovely talk on being single by choice 👏
And one thing about being single is that
Once you become comfortable in it and you get use to it, you will see relationship as a drag.
Thanks for reading
You are so right. It becomes hard to adjust.
Love is available but each person is free to decide whether to be alone or accompanied.😍😘
Very true.
So are you being accompanied ? 😇😇