She's not the girl I use to know, she's a shadow.
When was it again? I guess it was fifteen years ago. I never realized I was in love with the most popular girl in school. I was always hanging around her and doing her bidding. I got to realize I was in love with her when the head boy of the senior class asked her out, and she agreed. I got so jealous that I bit my lip. How could Wasilat treat me this way? after years of my loyalty to her.
Wasilat was a popular kid in my school because of her beauty; she had dark skin, and her skin was so smooth that it went unnoticed. He has bright brown eyes you could see only when you moved very close to her; she wasn't too tall; her height was probably 5'5"; her slender waist and huge hips make all the boys want her more; but I was happy because I was the one she hangs out with, I had the feeling of a king.
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We have been friends for a long time; I know everything about her, and I always make sure I do everything to make her happy, but everything changed after she agreed to date Bashiru.
I hated him for stealing my girl, a girl I never asked out, even after spending three years with her. After Wasilat started dating Bashiru, the beautiful Wasilat I used to know became someone else. She became proud, bullied junior students, and started using me as her errand boy. I had no choice but to bend to her will because I love her.
"Fash, Fash. Where are you? Come and get me drinks from Madame Ruth," Wasilat said to me with an obvious command tone. I was about to get up, but I did not because I was already losing respect.
I was the hotcake of my class; all the girls wanted me, but my feelings for Wasilat clouded my sight. "Go get it yourself if you can't say please." I said this because I did not want her to think I was refusing to go; I just wanted her to respect me.
"Ahahaha!" she laughed. She laughed so hard. I was looking at her while she was laughing. "So, I asked you to get something for me; you asked me to say please. Do I use to say please before?" Those words she said broke my heart into thousands of pieces.
I stood up and walked out of the class, and that was the beginning of the end. We started drifting apart, and we stopped hanging out together.
It was breaktime one afternoon, and I was having lunch with some of my friends when the conversation started.
Johnson: Look at your baby; she's with Bashiru.
Fash: Please stop calling her my baby; we never dated.
Victor: But you liked her and still like her.
Johnson: He's been blowing hot and cold about going to talk to her.
Fash: I am not her guy, for real. You both should just let the matter die.
Victor: Then stop blowing hot and cold at the same time. Pick one: remain hot for her or cold towards her.
I was getting irritated by the conversation, so I stood up and left. "Wait for us; why are you now leaving angrily?" Johnson said as he and Victor ran after me while I was leaving the cafeteria.
After graduation, I said my goodbyes to her, and that was the last time we spoke. If I had talked to her, would things have been different? This question continuously lingers in my mind.
You should have expressed your feelings for her. The hate you had for Bashiru does not worth it. It was not his fault but yours for not asking her out at first. I'm pretty sure she liked and even loved you so much but you failed to carryout what she was expecting. So, someone else grab the big fish out of your way.
I have a question to ask then
Isn’t love action rather than words
Yes, love is action rather than words but this girl was clueless guy
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If you like something or someone, go for it/them. She may have liked you too but you didn't man up to your feelings. The one who man-up was giving a chance. You only got jealous.
Besides, I believe if you had still spoken with her things would have been different
Well, things aren’t the way people think
I believe action speaks louder than words and if a girl can’t tell you love her by your actions
Then words won’t be enough
You are kidding. You are looking for actions from a lady? When we'd rather hide how we feel than speak up and be mocked by your gender. Where did you learn your love skills again?
No naaa
You are mixing it up
I’m saying the lady should understand the guys actions
There are things guys wouldn’t do for a lady except they love the lady
Aren’t that right?
Yes, you are. But ladies love affirmations too, Fash
Why do you think some guys who go to the ends of the world for a lady still get friend-zoned?
If you don't say something, we start assuming, and if someone else comes out of the blues and says something, oh well.....
ahhhhhhhh,
Iska.
I now understood what happened to us.
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I'm sorry you lost her 😔🥺😔
Or she lost me.
I was the hotcake remember?
Weirdo 😂
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It is what it is
I know how you felt back then bro, it can be very annoying when the one you love becomes the love of someone else but we can't blame her for dating someone else because you never asked her out.
My only issue is how she tried disrespecting you, it doesn't make any sense and it's better how you just walked away.
True true
I think love should be both ways even without words
Fact is
Sometimes words are needed but with actions, you can do some talking
Maybe just maybe if you had talked to her things would have been different.
What if she had waited for you to say those words but you didn't so she had to move on.
Beautiful story. 😊
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If she was actually waiting
Then she would have known the action was talking already