My biggest fear in life

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Hello everyone welcome to my blog once again it another week to participate in the #hiveghana weekly contest and it is my pleasure to share with you my greatest fear let's discuss.

Here comes as a result of the things we have heard most times we don't even see the over the fact that we have heard of them my people that have experience it it has built a system of fear in inside, as young person growing up I heard so many stories about failed marriages and I've seen a lot of them in my society.

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The rate of divorces and failed marriages in today's society is of a greater increase and sometimes I get worried I'm scared of myself going into marriage and ending up marrying the wrong person sometimes you will see two persons who are in love who claimed knew each other they love each other they got married but within a little period of time they became enemies and end up divorcing the marriage.

So you will be wondering what is really causing the failure in marriage, to some extent the reason why marriages are failing is because two unprepared people went into marriage. My fear is to enter a marriage that I'm not prepared for. Marriage is about responsibility and tolerance. I'm scared if I will be able to be responsible for someone else and to tolerate someone to the extent of letting go of every single hurt.

As a young girl in my early twenties everyday my mom and dad are making it their business to prepare my mind for marriage, not only my mind every other aspects of my life, my dad do tell me I have to have an identity before going into marriage, and I'm personally giving myself to learning because I don't want to have a failed marriage. My fear is to end up marrying the wrong person or becoming the wrong person in marriage. I want a happy married life and I want to be the best person for my partner. I pray I don't end up with the wrong person and not end up becoming the wrong person in marriage.

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I pray you also find a good partner and have an everlasting marriage.

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Amen thanks so much mate I really appreciate your kind words 💞

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I say Amen to your prayer. may you not end up with the wrong person. what a great prayer point, I think every single lady should had this prayer to their prayer everyday because it takes the grace of God to build a happy home, the rate of divorce keep increasing day by day

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Thanks so much ma for stopping by I really appreciate you kind words 💞

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You'll get the perfect partner... don't afraid about it .
Just visualise what you want and believe it

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I pray so thanks so much ma I really appreciate your stopping by

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Marrying the wrong person is hell on earth, you will know no peace.

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Marriage is really not child’s play because once you get in there, there no coming back and you have to face the world as a team. Most people end up marrying for so many reasons and when they don’t get what they expect that’s when all the fights start which leads to divorce.
It’s better to marry late and right than marry early and wrong.

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Thanks so much for this wonderful comment, i really like the part you said it is better to marry late and marry right than marrying the wrong person because it can limit one destiny to some extent when we fail in marriage

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True, marrying wrongly can mar your destination in life. I pray you marry aright. Marriage is about responsibility and purpose fulfilment. If you get it wrong, you can't be a fulfilled man or woman. Thank you for this piece.

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Very true dear when you get it wrong everything about your life too will be wrong. Thanks for stopping by I really appreciate

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Hmm, touching one , don't be afraid lines will fall on a pleasant places for you my dear sister

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Thanks dear for stopping by and for your kind words I really appreciate

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Some fear is unknown until you face the real fear. Just learn from your parents if they are maintaining their marriage happily. The truth is two imperfect person will hurt each other. Love will help the two to put up with one another
!HUG

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Reviewed and Approved for an Ecency boost. Keep up the good work!

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