Truth does hurt, revealing it often creates Enemies
I had recently learned this lesson and as I happen to get mid age, I realized that this can be pretty difficult experience to live with. Like you understand that you are surrounded with people with different opinion and they are not going to like what you say and do. Which is something you learn from experience.
For example, I recently had the different political party support in the conversation. And I was more growth oriented argument for the support. And realized that what I like is not what other people like. And the growth is personal for each people and their life.
So I was talking about how the person was progressive and how they can help with jobs and the infrastructure in our area. But turns out the people who I was having the interaction they were like they wanted someone who does not do much development. And so they wanted to shut my opinion.
Like they want certain same people and their kids getting elected over a period of time. And then they want those cycles staying the same because they benefit out of those people getting elected. Like those have loyalty towards those people. And that means they would be thinking about the election as a way to channelize that dependencies.
I feel a lot of times we create enemies by sharing our religion, political opinion and also having opinion about what we like and dislike. And that grand scheme of the opinion also gets attacked. And the enemies happen when your opinion and the opinion of the masses in the clash. So it kind of shows you how the enemies can bite back.
I suppose in order to grow over this. We have to either shut up or find the means to vent out. Because there are means on the internet where you can lock the comments. And also you choose to comment in places where you don't get back attacked. And also the people who interact and also communicate don't have issues once your mindset gets cleaned off sharing what your mind wants to say to other people.