When children grow up and move away to start their own family

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Sometimes it seems incredible how fast time goes by and without realizing it our children grow up, they become men and women, and it is natural that they leave our side to form their family, they will have the guidance that we have given them under our roof, and they will also have to live their own experiences, no doubt they will stumble and fall, but the best thing is that from my home I have taught them that they must get up as many times as possible.

As parents it makes us nostalgic to see our children leave our side, but at the same time we are happy to see them walk alone and self-confident, when we see that we say internally, the job is done, we feel proud of our work as parents, now seeing the other side of the coin, that is, to see how our children form a good home as we did when we left our parents, it is simply a cycle of life.

When we are clear that everything around us develops in cycles, then, we understand the reason for the events that have happened, many parents are sad to see their children leave home, because they think they have been left alone as in the beginning, which is not so because their children have only decided to form their own family where parents will be fundamental pieces for the good family development as the family has expanded.

I remember every moment when my two daughters and son came into this world, my son is the oldest and was premature and today is a man who wants to go down the right path, and valuable of the creation of the new family of our children is the arrival of the grandchildren and we come to love them even more than our children, The grandchildren make us forget the absence of the children, and also, we understand the logic of life, logic that sometimes we want to leave aside and it is not the right thing to do, children and grandchildren are our most valuable fruit of life and for which we should always be happy.

We have all felt lonely at some point, however, there are different types of loneliness, and when we are alone for the natural reason of our children to form their family that is not loneliness is to put everything in its place and wait for the growth of the family in harmony.