Discovering My Talent Made Life Fun
Talent refers to one's exceptional natural ability to get things done. It is inherent but requires development. A person is said to be talented in a thing when he/she can do a thing very easily and perfectly even without necessarily being taught or having any previous knowledge. Though others would have to undergo series of thorough training before they can be acquainted with the activity while the talented person would only need to give it try. The difference between the talented person and a normal person is the level perfection , skill and ease with which they both show through their works. Talents can also be gotten by consistent practice, and being multi-talented is possible.
We can discover our talents by trying things out on our own and also through mentorship.
The Discovery
I was 21 years old when I discovered my talent. While I was in secondary school, senior class to be precise, i often hear people talk about talent and I wonder if I had any. There was a time I sought for my talent so much that I got frustrated and decided not to bother about it any more. I discovered almost every thing I did, I had to used my energy and it really cost me a lot of effort, at the end it doesn't always stand out. I couldn't pin point one thing that I was naturally good at, that One thing that I could do on my own. Meanwhile I love people who invent things themselves and I so wished i could get mine soon. If we are not people who love trying, we might never get to know our talents. One thing with me is that, once I try something and it didn't work, I easily get discouraged but I don't stop trying except I don't really mean it.
Before I got my talent I suffered a lot trying different things. Whatever it is that seem to attract my attention I check it out to see if that is where I belong, I tried drawing many times but it didn't favour me. I tried public speaking but I was shamed, I am not too good at talking, I don't go far before I start stammering. I continued trying many things, like dancing , musical instruments and others but I couldn't lay my hands on that which really makes me feel like I am there, each of the ones I tried frustrated my life and made me feel useless. After a while I decided to forget about the matter and concentrate on my studies. Should I be honest with you? I was on that quest because my friends were intimidating me with theirs, you know how it feels to be the only person among your friends that can not invented something on your own, you only do what someone else has done, that thing sucks. I was feeling odd among them, but thank God I was doing very well in my academics , that too is something to talk about. I got relieved and concluded that I don't have any talent at all. Therefore I won't kill myself trying to get what I know does not exist. I emptied my mind completely and stopped allowing myself to get intimidated.
Until the year 2019, when I took reading seriously. I love knowledge a lot, any good and edifying material I lay my hands on , I don't hesitate to feed my head with it. Each time I read, I discover that I get a lot ideas flowing through my mind based on what I read. If I read a passage, it will just look as if I am with the person that wrote it, like we are sharing ideas. I don't know how to really explain it, but it is usually like my eyes are opened and I am seeing the thoughts in the author's heart while he was writing. So I could easily relate with each sentence I read. Reading became fun for because of that, while others will read like news paper and get bored I read and find meaning out of every single word. So I was not just reading, I was fetching realities. It started becoming more fascinating, I found a companion that no one knows about, I started liking being inside than outside.
Soon I thought it would be nice to start writing down the ideas in my head from whatever I read, since it doesn't stay long in my heart before it goes away. That was how I stumbled upon my talent to write. Once I read something and I decided to expound it, the river keeps flowing until I choose to stop. I don't know what to call it whether it is a coincidence or not but each time I try to relate what I wrote down with what is in the book I read, I discover it tallies and I always get amazed like, how comes? That was how I got my talent.
All this while it was resident in me, but how to get at it was the problem. Since then , life became more meaningful to me, whenever I am hurt I write my pains downs, whenever I am excited I write and words don't stop flowing until I look at the time and discover it is late then I stop and get some sleep 😁. I was happy to atleast have something that I could really do on my own without having to go and copy from another person.
When one journey ends, another begins. Though I found my talent , I could write and write without having ideas exhausted but I don't know the principles of writing, sometimes I would need someone to give me a topic first, I repeat sentences sometimes, another thing is I don't even have grammars to ganish my work😁. Some of us grew up in the village, our English teacher was sacked while we were in primary one 😹. I could only use the simpler words am conversant with. What I mean here is that, discovering our talent is one thing, developing it, is another thing. If we don't develop our talent, though it is supposed to take us to heights in life but we might end up remaining local and stagnant. Gold is beautiful but the beauty can never be seen as long as it is not purified in fire.
How far have I used my talent, where has it taken me?
If not that I discovered I could write, I wouldn't have been on the Hive platform. The talent has brought me to a place where I could write and get paid, and also improve my writting skill. I told you I have a lot of challenges on writing earlier on right? isnt all the reward interesting? Through this same talent I have come across people that became friends, from friends to family. I have not gone far yet, I am still writting and I will continue writting 😁. Learning never ends.
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Wow, you really made a lot of effort in discovering your talent. Even when you felt intimidated by your friends and tried to do one or two things, it couldn't work and that's to say it's not really natural in you and might require that you struggle to get it done.
Look at your writing skill today, you made effort to discover it by constantly reading books and now you are doing amazing here.
Weldon my friend 👍
Mom, I almost gave up on discovering my Talent, I was blindly chasing what doesn't belong to me, little did I know that what I was looking for was just close by. The joy I have since that day is something I can't explain till now.
Thank you so much for stopping by mom, pleas forgive me for late reply. We are having serious power failure here. 🙏🙏🥰🥰🧡🧡♥️♥️
Boy, oh boy......! You are amazing. I am elated to come across such an original write up without mincing of words. I loved that.
The description for the talent as being something that you can do with ease just touched my heart. I had to rethink about my own talent. Hehe. Perhaps I have been mistken at what I think my talent is. It is something else.
I just wondered why it took you so long to discover that you loved reading followed by writing. I mean it is something we keep on doing through out our school years.
Your claim for the love of reading and writing is evident from the very write up. And the thing is that your vocabulary and grammar is quite effluent. Moreover, the way you love reading, improvement is inevitable. You will soonbe at the pinnacle.
At the end, I want to ask if you have heard about Dreemport.
Wow! Your comment has really put a smiles on my face☺️ , I feel like reading it over and over.
Going back to think about what you think has been your talent previously means you are doubting what you have as a talent but there is no two ways about it, if you feel you have not really grasp your talent, it is a free world, don't hesitate to check it out. Does that mean you often stress yourself to get things done at the area you feel you are talented? Well, what I mean by ease here is, you don't have to suffer before the ideas come and putting the ideas into work to give result won't also be a problem.
Hehe 😁, I wonder so too,but I thank God, I have found it at last, what matters now is how to use it for the better.
Amen🙏, this words are like cold water I a dry and thirty land ☺️.
Yes I have, but I don't really know how to use it. I tried but it seem to be frustrating me🙃 so I took a break.
Thank you so much for stopping by, words can not be enough to express my gratitude. I am even prompted to say, please come around next time😁😁. I am very grateful for your kind words and encouragement. I feel energized
Firstly, I am extremely sorry to come late to reply.
Yeah I mean that I feel stressed but the things aren't that simple. I love doing that and it's my passion too, but the problem is that being a perfectionist I put strong judgements on me and that's the cause of stress. Well, in the past year I have worked on the perfectionism trait and tried to be happy with imperfections.... yet, it's a long battle to behold.
True. Past is history. Utilising present is the best strategy
I hope you will return after the break. I am sure you will rock there with your superb writing skills. It is not difficult at all. If there is any problem I may guide you.
Sure. I would love to. Clicking the follow button 👍
There is no problem boss, I am glad to hear from you again.
I am glad you always working towards excellence and perfection. There is nothing that is just easy. the talents only there to help us with ideas on how to come up with things but ofcourse bringing it to reality would definitely stress us.
Well you don't have to settle with imperfections, you just have to keep striving for the best. Imperfections are not for you boss.
I would love resume right away, if you will put me through. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
!LOLZ.... we can attain excellence but not perfection.
Well, about Dreemport, I would tell you to the site. Go for daily task ➡ curate ➡ read the given posts. Accept or reject them. Submit your response and then rate them.....
With this you have earned an NFT card and the dreem tokens.
Now you can go to submit option and submit any of your post which PG-13 and has no copyright issues.
So far as accept and reject options are concerned, any post that is not a spam, Accept it. Any post that is spam, Reject it.
Easy peasy,?
Hahahhaaha..
You are very right.. perfection is something we can only work towards attaining but it has no end.. so I correct my statement hehe😁😁..
Thank you so much for the guide on dreemport. You are indeed a friend.. can I chat you up on discord?
I am so sorry for late reply 🙏🙏
Interesting! I know that feeling when you feel odd among your friends who were busy showcasing their talents while you couldn't. It's so sad to say because you will definitely feel ashamed and embarrassed especially when your friends start seeing you like someone who doesn't have anything doing.
But you found a talent after much trying..... This, I would say you have made me recognized another talent about me which is similar to yours.
When I read, I see myself in another world with a different thoughts to reality and I would start having different ideas in my brain. I will immediately write them down so I don't forget and that has always helped me with developing myself.
It is one thing to identify your talent and another thing to work on it to get improved.
This sounds like a first hand experience. Hehe😁. That feeling is awful, I have to start avoiding sone people at some point because I don't want to be feeling bad🙃.
Wow, I would love to lay my hands on that book ma, I want to fetch from the well of wisdom 😁
Yes, if we don't work on it, it rust and get filled with cobwebs.
Thank you so much for stopping by ma, I am so grateful 🙏🙏🥰🧡