Things that get me boiling — Ladies Of Hive Contest #95

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I love this week's topic so much and that is because I have a lot of things that angers me but will just share those ones that make me burst out from my shell.

I hate being yelled at, to a reasonable extent I will say I am cool tempered but you see this here, makes me think otherwise. I really get angered when I'm yelled at like, what is it! can't you just communicate without yelling?. We could actually just talk about it and be good, why go through the stress of stressing your vocals just because you are trying to make a point?

I will eventually not get it (haha) but gradually I am getting better tips on how to calm myself since I can't bring everybody to do it my way. Once I notice an increase in tone I just grab a glass of water and drink it without swallowing it so I won't be able to speak. Funny right?, But it actually works for me.

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ny right?, but it actually works magic for me.
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Another thing that angers me is lying. Gosh I can't seize to relate with you for a lifetime once I notice this, it has a way of irritating me. I always have the belief of being responsible for any of my actions or something, so I get pissed when one can't actually own up but over time I have learnt that their are so many reasons why we tend to lie about something so I nurtured myself into having to make excuses about why they had to do it even if it doesn't work 100% for me.

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The last but not the least is comparison, I hate being compared either to something or someone, it always has a way of making me feel less of myself, funny enough I might not let you notice my anger towards you at that point but you will definitely notice a change in my attitude and then eventually I try to prove you wrong on the notion you have about me that made u compare me, to the extent u retrace you words that just my perfect way of calming myself on this.

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I like your first method of calming down, I would never have thought of that hahahahaha!!! That is a really ingenious move! I'm not much on people that can't own up either, but I try to have a lot of patience with them, most are blind to their own faults.
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I hate the Comparison thing too, particularly with supposed life achievements and presumed goals. Its as if the speaker belittles me for not achieving the milestones she had.
I met too many of that type, Thanks @ellenklech

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That comparison thing is sure annoying . Thank you ma

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I just grab a glass of water and drink it without swallowing it so I won't be able to speak. Funny right?, But it actually works for me.

This is a brilliant tactic! I once heard a priest who shared a story about a wife who went to an elder for advice. The elder recommended the wife to fetch water from his faucet saying the water is miraculous and told her that she should put water in her mouth each time they have a quarrel with her husband. After a few weeks, the wife returned to the elder saying the water is indeed magical and that she and her husband stopped fighting. She didn't know that the water in her mouth prevented her from speaking which solved their problem, hahaha!

Thank you so much Ellen for sharing these :) Greatly appreciated

!LADY

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Hahaha miraculous water indeed!. I appreciate you too ma

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Haha, made me laugh really when I got reminded about it through your post :) Cheers Ellen, enjoy your day

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