LOH Community Contest #153 ~ He Pays Me to Help
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What is the most annoying mannerism or trait that a man or your partner (spouse, or boyfriend) has that you wish he could get rid of or change?
When I saw this particular question, I laughed hard and long because just yesterday night while I and my partner were having our conversation, we got into an argument about particular traits of his that I do not like and I think he needs to change because I get irritated when he does it and deep down, I am always like if we get married, will I be able to handle these things because he is not conscious of it even when I point it out to him, he ends up doing the same thing a few minutes after.
I am not a conventional person, I don't do things the normal way or think the normal way things should be done or said as a lady. So most times you could come to my house and find it a bit disorganized but notwithstanding, it can never be an eyesore that could make you cringe and your heart leaps when you see the state of the house.
That I can not say for my partner, although I guess it's because he is busy sometimes even on the weekends but countless times I have told him, to help you keep your house organized even if you do not have the time to arrange it, when you pick a particular thing to use, be conscious of dropping it back to the exact place you picked it from, but I guess I talked to the wrong person about it.
Except on Mondays that is the beginning of the week, if you go to his place any other day of the week, you would be shocked at the state of his house. His undies are on the bed, his shoes are scattered outside, and his boiled drinking water is all open with the lid far away from the container itself.
At first, I was playing the good partner, but when I realized that he it has become a thing he unconsciously does, but now I would wait for him to come back and ask him to pick his things and keep them where they ought to be or he pays me a token for doing that. I just wish he could get rid of that because mehn! I am not ready to be doing that particular job.
This is my entry to the second question in the Ladies of Hive Community Contest #153
Haha, what a coincidence that this prompt kind of came right in timing for you, lol! Kidding aside, I can only imagine how you would cringe when seeing the mess at your bf's place. Would be a tough habit to change unless he is willing to.
Thanks for sharing your :)
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You can say that again, I am hoping he changes but if he doesn't, he will have to pay me for the extra job, maybe by the time he realizes how much he removes from his pocket every day, he is going to be conscious about changing.
Thank you 😊
The reality is that we cannot change others so let's hope your bf will become conscious about what he's doing and hopefully change for the better :)
True and I hope so too.
Thank you for your comment 😊
This doesn't sound easy at all oo
Seriously, but I hope he changes soon.
Thank you 😊
You're smart, you are blessed with a new side hustle, so also discuss with him that your service is subject to price increase due to cost of fuel. Hahaha, I wish you good luck in your entry. Smiles!
Lol, thank you jhare.
As a business woman bah? I will definitely tell him that, thank you for that wisdom.
Thank you 😊
Hahaha, thank you for accepting the idea.
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I know how pissed off you will be once you met his apartment disarranged. I hope he changes for good so that you won't be stressed too much
I hope so too